This Ebook Is About Finding a Guy That You Like To Date
Do you want a guy to be crazy about you, the way you are about him? While you can't make someone feel a certain way, you can definitely put your best foot forward and give his feelings a chance to develop. Here are some helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being true to yourself.
Like yourself. You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence if it's sorely lacking. Now, this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you feel comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble all at the same time. Guys like confident, interesting girls who lead their own lives. The only guys who like insecure girls are the ones who are insecure themselves and want to dominate or control another human being. And who wants to be with a guy who wants a girl to feel bad about herself or who wants to tell you how to be all the time? That's not healthy, and you deserve much better.
Make it clear you're available. Wearing a "single bracelet" will do the trick and they're stylish. He's not going to hit on you if he thinks you're taken. If you have a Facebook account and he's not already in your friends list, invite him; just make sure your status is set as single! If you don't want to wear the bracelet, he's not on Facebook, or he just doesn't see your invitation, make it obvious in other subtle ways, such as hanging out with your girlfriends a lot where you know he'll be, dropping subtle hints about not knowing who to go with to an event, etc. Never get someone else to ask a guy out for you. However, you might judge it helpful to talk to a totally trusted friend to let her know how much she can let on in his presence as to your availability, without sounding obvious. However, see "Warnings" below about telling your friends about your love interest.
Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. Make sure you show a little interest and drop small hints that you like him. Most guys won't ask you out because they're afraid of getting shot down. You've got to walk before you run, right? Say "Hi". Say "Good-bye". Wave. When he reciprocates, is when you know he notices you. Introduce yourself somehow and make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you, unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Express your sense of humor in your own way. Some people are witty and sarcastic, others can tell hilarious stories, and many people just do quirky things and poke fun at themselves. No matter what tickles your sense of humor, it's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while. If you don't find something to laugh about together, then maybe you'll discover that you don't like him after all!