Anorexia - Bulimia Home Treatment Program Ebook

Anorexia- Bulimia Self Help Treatment Program

• The best way to treat Anorexia - Bulimia is at home with an individual program. This gives people a chance to control their behavior by themselves and not be dependent on a group or a therapist. When we realized this fact, Amy started to improve.

• Group therapy gives people a dependency on being in the group. They feel OK while they are in the group but loose all sense of self-control when they are at home.

• Group therapy provides sufferers with a lot of friends who are also anorexic or bulimic. They get to understand each other very well and develop a "team spirit" attitude. If they get better they need to leave the group and stay on their own. Often they don't want to leave their friends so they stay the same.

• Being in the group patients get too many negative ideas from each other. If a young woman has never heard of drinking ipecac to induce vomiting and learns this technique in group therapy, she may try the technique out herself, leaving the group leader or member feeling responsible.

• In the group patients often deliberately get worse or engage in more symptoms just to get extra attention from each other or the therapist. This kind of competition always exists in eating disorder groups but on many different levels. Sometimes it can get out of control and cause a lot of harm to some members of the group, the most venerable ones.

• Parents of sufferers often think that the doctors or the therapist know the best way to help. But the truth is that parents should be the first and most important people who can really truly help.

• Partners and friends often think that they will just follow the recommendations of a doctor or what a counsellor gives them to follow. But the truth is that partners and friends should actively look and seek information on how they can help. And also search for what other people have done to help save their loved ones health and life.

• Eating disorder sufferers think that they always need other people to get better and that without doctors and therapist they will not improve. The truth is that the best help you can get is from yourself. If you follow a special individual program at home you will not need any outside help at all.

• Sufferers of Anorexia think that if they eat even a little bit more they will become obese and never be happy again. The truth is that for the anorexic, weight gain, is gradual and usually one of the last aspects of therapy, because the fear is so great. By following an individual program at home an anorexic person can loose this fear in a matter of weeks and restore normal body weight soon after that.

• Sufferers of Bulimia think that they have control over their bulimia and can stop any time they want. The truth is that bulimia takes all control over the person's mind and body. The sufferer becomes imprisoned by her/his own infliction. By following a home individual program you will be able to control your appetite and food consumption, stop vomiting after meals and regain control of your feelings and emotions.

• Some eating disorder sufferers think that just changing their thoughts from negative to positive would be enough to cope with their erratic eating behaviour. The truth is that an eating disorder is not only about a bad eating behaviour and only thinking positive will not help. It is much more complex than that and you should follow a special home treatment program that gives you a step by step plan to follow.

• How to cope with stress and not put yourself into that purging or starving cycle? As a sufferer you can overcome these feelings easily once you know how. There is nothing hard about it, you only have to know how to control stress. The beauty is it is a learned thing and anyone can do it, you don't have to have any special talents to learn it. I show you how to do this in the treatment program.

• How to correct the sufferers association to pleasure and pain in their life. As most have lost their insight into the correct association. Because starving or purging is painful, but to the sufferer they see it as pleasure. A new association must be established to replace the old ones.

• A lot of people think you can beat Anorexia- Bulimia by using willpower, but this is not true. You have to defeat the little voices in your head that keep telling you to binge and purge or starve yourself against your own will. You can only conquer these voices by knowing how to get them out of the subconscious part of your mind and willpower alone will not do it. We show you how to beat them.

• What topics regarding the sufferers psychology you should discuss first. This is an important point and it has to be addressed just right or you could do more damage than good to the sufferer. I will show you exactly how to do the right thing, so it will be easier on you.

• What is your correct action towards making changes in your/ their behavior. I learned through trial and error how to identify the correct actions. I give you the proper actions to take that will change your behavior.

• The program to stop being Anorexic and/or Bulimic in just weeks/ months, not years. This simple, yet little-known technique actually forces your mind and body to function in the way it was designed to function naturally.

• What should you tell them : which words should you use and which should be avoided. You have to approach a sufferer in a certain way or you will get nowhere at all. There is a secret to doing this and I tell you exactly how to do it.

• How to react and what to say when your loved one denies the problem. Again this is a very tricky situation. To be able to help them you first have to get them to admit they have a problem. You will see how this is done when you get the program.

• How to react and what to say when your loved one rejects you and wants to be left alone. I know how you feel at this time, you feel like screaming and yelling at them to wake up to themselves and stop being stupid. But this would be the worst thing you could do and I explain why this is and the correct things to do.

• What are the real triggers of binging -purging cycles? What makes you starve yourself? You will see how to stop this from happening by following my special home treatment program.

• How to empower yourself to deal with such a "difficult and sensitive' situation. This is an important part if you are helping or dealing with a loved one who has an eating disorder. You have to be strong even in the face of abuse from the sufferer, this is very important.

• You need to know how the sufferer arrived where they are today, you simply can not deal with it if you know nothing about it. But you will have all the correct information at hand to lighten the load on you. It is also important for the sufferer to know how they arrived where they are today. This is important to beating their affliction.

• How to recognize the first signs of the disease and the signs of progression of the disease and how to act to stop it immediately. You can save yourself and the sufferer many years of pain and anguish if you can spot things early, you will see how this is done in the book. So if you have any suspicions you can stop it in its tracks and save yourself all that pain.

• How to show love and compassion to the sufferer and eliminate anger. If you are serious about helping, you have to understand this point more than any other or you will be putting the sufferer at great risk and yourself through years of torture.

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