Wednesday, 11:13 a.m.
Dr. Frank Gunzburg
Dear Friend,
Almost everyone was observation Grandfather open his gifts except the few who saw Ray and Kathy out of the corners of their eyes.
Those who witnessed it were aghast and amazed. Those who detected just about it were relieved. Even as Kathy's daughter, hidden in the corner of the room, saw it and wrestled back her tears of joy.
As Ray sat alienated in the back, he felt a hand slip softly into his. Looking down, he recognized the fingers he'd acknowledged for years laced fondly through his hand. He glanced up slowly to see Kathy's assuasive face as she gave him a smile.
No longer was Ray cold and defensive, backed into his corner of isolation. No longer was Kathy feeling showing emotion shipwrecked, paralyzed with demeaning pictures of Ray in the arms of the another woman.
...tormented by her unreciprocated questions.
....devastated after having her complete self-worth sabotaged.
After only a few weeks, thing major was starting to change. Suddenly, talking just about the details didn't feel like taking a walk in a minefield. Kathy's emotions were finally starting to be under her control and no longer holding her hostage.
Ray began to open up and communicate with sincerity and humility. He gently allowed her to express the trauma she full-fledged without controversy or throwing it back in her face (more on Ray and Kathy's story in a second).
At this point, I accomplished that the consistent methods I have been exploitation for 30 years would-be activity for about anyone (if at least one of them is willing to start before it is too late).
You see, I'm not going to lie to you.
Not only have I seen it, but I have helped folk take control by arming them with a 3-phase system that can restore their relationship with more honesty, safety, and intimacy than before the affair (even if their partner isn't yet willing).
My name is Dr. Frank Gunzburg. For 15 of my 59 years, I have lived in Baltimore, Maryland with my married woman Sandy, our five children, and our six grandchildren. For the most part, I'd say it's been a quiet life, except for one thing.
Over the last 30 years, I have fought in the trenches aboard couples who are desperate to save their marriages after affairs. Several come to me hopeful, several come cold and battle-hardened, and others come alone, uncertain, and praying that I can breath life back into their near-dead relationship.
After three decades of specializing in marriage counseling, I've seen galore folk give up. I've seen galore relationships wherever the couples put off healing too long and eventually cause irreparable damage.
More importantly, I've seen the majority of my couples overcome what they fanciful to be unbeatable odds by restoring their relationship and devising it better than before the affair.
Sound hard to believe? Perhaps, but all I ask is that you refrain from skeptical until I show you proof.
Imagine this... what if I told you that the magic bullet for reconstruction your relationship enclosed one or more of the following ten ss:
You mightiness say I'm right, or you mightiness say you've tried these and galore more things and they just don't work.
In Apr 2004, right before I finished outlining my affair-healing system, I performed an extensive survey of 300 willing couples who all had one thing in common - a relationship ripped apart by an affair.
In addition to 30 extensive questions, I asked them to list the top 10 things they tried in an attempt to heal their relationship. The list above is the result of this study (with talking leading the pack at 58%).
However, despite all that hard activity (including counseling), only 55% were willing to continue the relationship. (Of those who were willing to continue, 71% stayed because of the children.)
Like Kathy, galore were available to call it quits. So, what was the problem?
Successfully repairing your relationship is not just about doing a lot of hard work; it's a system. This system is just about doing the right things, BUT more importantly, doing them in the right order.
You see, all of the things listed above can be good, but most of the time they are performed in the wrong order.
Let me explain with an example.
Fact: Of 1083 wedded couples surveyed, out of the group who discussed the affair in great detail, 86% remained married. Out of the group who discussed the affair really little, only 55% remained married.
A survey performed in 2002 by Peggy Vaughan
and the BAN network - www.dearpeggy.com
When you choose to talk just about the details is more important than if you talk just about the details.
Here's why: once your partner drops the bomb of their affair, it is one of the most shocking and devastating experiences you can go through. The mental and physical pain can be too more to bear.
With Kathy, the shock of the news left her showing emotion paralyzed.
"After galore weeks of lying numb in bed, I tried to get my life back together, but this atrocious combination of emotions unbroken coming up. At 1st I just felt rage: a kind of anger I have ne'er felt before and pray to God I ne'er feel again.
"Slowly the rage turned into hatred. I wanted to kill him. I mean I actually wanted to kill him. I frightened myself with the pictures that ran through my head. I can't tell you how galore times I thought just about going into the room and acquiring the butcher knife. It scares me to talk just about it even as now. I had no idea I was capable of such feelings of violence.
"Eventually I accomplished these emotions were masking what I actually felt deep down inside: betrayed, humiliated, and defeated. What's more, I felt very, really sad. I felt like person had died, and in a sense, person had. At the time, I felt like the life I had worked so hard for was dead. I was the one who had died. My rage and hate were like a shield against these softer emotions. My heart hurt so more I didn't even as want to feel. The heart can actually break you know. Mine has. I've felt it."
- Kathy Brown
Because of the intense pain you're going through, talking just about the details at this stage in the game most likely will only confirm the negative feelings you already have just about yourself. This will do nothing to help you cope.
In addition, most couples experience a regression in their relationship after they discuss the details. However, if several of you are showing emotion prepared, you will quickly recover, thus devising the experience healthy.
This is why I show you how to talk just about the details after I've sceptered you to take control over your emotions in the first phase of my 3-phase healing system
Many say time can be a great healer; however, once left without a map, most folk normally get lost and drift further apart.
As more as time has the ability to heal, it can besides have a negative impact. Lease your emotions run wild and doing the wrong things over and over can eventually disable you and kill your chances at living the affair.
For months, Kathy bought Ray gifts, tried being nice, hid her anger, positive him to set boundaries, and even as bucked up him to talk through the details.
Despite her hard work, every time they would-be try to talk they would-be tailspin out of control. Once they sat down to activity things out, emotions would-be ignite and they would-be either engage in a pitiless argument or just shut each another out.
For example, Kathy would-be try to force Ray to share the details, but every time he would-be she would-be burst into tears and eventually start yelling. (Every time they sat down to talk, Ray became more and more reserved because he feared going through the same emotional roller coaster - he just shut her out.)
Also, Ray was trying to come on in the relationship before understanding what drove him to have an affair in the 1st place. (Telling Kathy that she needful to "get over it" was like trying to hammer a bent nail into the wall- it would-be ne'er work.)
Kathy bought all the main-stream marriage books, watched the talk shows, and even as bought a few marriage videos. She tried about everything they suggested, but still felt disconnected, hopeless, and frustrated. Once she stumbled onto my information, she was about without hope.
After listening to her for 20 minutes, I told her the following three things with which she and Ray needful help:
I explain the resolution as three separate issues because that's the way I look at the relationship after an affair (the injured, the person who cheated, and the relationship). Several the abraded and the deceiver need to sort out specific issues before they can begin to activity on the "relationship."
Because of the trauma and alienation that an affair brings, it is chimerical to assume a couple can activity together right away. First, they need to activity alone and sort through all of the emotional weights (Phase I). Once they are ready, they will start working together (Phase II).
Working through the emotional turmoil 1st is crucial because it helps the couple avoid starting Earth War III and devising matters worse.
"...your book describes exactly what should be done."
"I think you hit the nail on the head once you aforesaid to sort through your emotions instead of asking questions just about the affair. I think folk don't cognize what to do once they are so numb from finding out, but your book describes exactly what should be done."
Kristin Slagle
Milner, GA
This is why my system is unique; galore another programs require couples to start together right out of the gate. I help you start healing your marriage even as if your partner isn't willing yet.
To repair your relationship you need to follow a sequence. I call it a sequence because healing your relationship is just about building on success after success. As a matter of fact, that is how I came up with my system.
After disbursement years observation couples go back and forth, I started to see patterns (certain methods that worked to bring a couple closer together).
Over time, I started writing down what worked, and I continuing testing these patterns until they became rules.
This is what does my information several than galore of the unfaithfulness books on the market. Piece there are galore good books that offer great information for understanding how you feel, they do not cautiously organize that information into phases that help you, your partner, and then several of you activity things out.
They just expect you to numbers it out with trial and error. That's why books don't heal marriages. But systems do.
"...you give a true road map and plan on how to deal with this situation."
"I have looked at a lot of books in the bookstores, but I find that they are too theoretical. You get right to the meat of the whole thing...you don't have to see a bunch of preliminary stuff. Once you are in this situation, you want to get right to the point and you have. Well done! I think you give a true road map and plan on how to deal with this situation. I think most people, after they get over the shock,still want to save their marriage, but they need to cognize how to go just about it."
Wayne Hansen
Vancouver, BC, Canada
That is why I spent that last 18 months organizing all of my methods and documenting them into a step-by-step system that you can use to restore yourself and then reconstruct your relationship.
It's called.
Here's what you need to do.
In order to repair the trust, you will activity through three phases. Each phase corresponds directly to a specific part of the healing process.
There is no time limit; you can come at the pace that serves you, no matter wherever you are (months or years into the healing process). I've had several folk come to me after years of knowing just about the affair and start at the beginning. (They received benefits they ne'er imagined.)
"...we're talking and laughing."
"I am able to converse with my partner in a more positive respectful manner. I am able to laugh. I am being myself; we're talking and laughing; simple things are enjoyable again. On Sunday, we actually had dinner in the park and spent three hours just sitting and chatting away. This could Ne'er happen as recently as two weeks ago. By just following the steps you have mentioned, I have regained several control of 'our' life without even as difficult it. I cognize I've got a lot of activity and a long and possibly difficult road ahead, but I cognize that if I support practicing, I'll do it."
Nicole A.
Brooklyn, NY
Phase I is all just about you (both the abraded and the cheater).
After the affair, your 1st instinct mightiness be to look for reasons why the affair happened. You want to cognize the details of the affairs. You want to cognize why your admired one did what they did. You want to cognize if you will ever be able to trust your partner again.
This is what I call "externalizing." Externalizing means you are looking outside of yourself for answers to emotional issues that are happening inside you. You mightiness do this because you believe that finding the "reason" will help you heal.
This isn't the better path to take. What you need to do is try to come to terms with your own emotions (and that is the 1st step I lead you through).
It is only after this is achieved that you can engage with your partner without doing additional harm to your relationship.
If you just found out just about the affair inside the last few months, your mind is spinning and flooded with intense emotions.
The 1st thing I will do is empower you with the mental techniques to take control of the emotions that are fighting to take control of you. You'll discover how to manage the following emotions:
I've ne'er met anyone who hasn't full-fledged these emotions after an affair. Once you feel them, you can either stuff them down or discover how to process them. Left alone, they will only do you calloused.
This is why, on Page 38 of Section 1, I take you by the hand and teach you how to process the Eight Heart-Wrenching Emotions. By the time you're through, you will discover how to get these overwhelming emotions under control.
In addition, over the course of my 30-year career, I have categorised the most common trials and questions you will have at this time.
I'll help you resolve the Nine Shockwaves: The Nine Most Common Questions You Wish Struggle with Once You 1st Find Out ...
I'll help you hurdle over The Four Roadblocks to Healing: Four Monstrous Emotions that Need to Be Baby-faced and Dealt with As Shortly As They Appear.
"You actually seem to understand how painful it is."
"The nine shockwaves you wrote just about are exactly the way I feel. I am experiencing the four roadblocks to healing. It actually helped me to see in writing that I am not going crazy or feeling things I am not supposed to feel. You actually seem to understand how painful it is."
Georgette Blemker
Fort Wayne, IN
Discovering how to activity through these intense feelings will help you feel normal again and will allow you to concentrate. These skills will be invaluable to you over the next few months because they will be the anchor that helps you conquer your insecure thoughts.
When you're done with Section 1, you will have a strong handle on your emotions. Not only will you understand what you're feeling and why you're feeling it, but you'll besides uncover the following techniques:
After you start to understand and control your emotions, the next step will be to help you recover from the plague of negative thoughts.
Many folk come to me panicky that they are going crazy and haunted with the following:
All these feelings are normal and to be expected. Once the rug is force out from under you, it affects your ability to see things clearly. That is why this section will help you take hold of reality.
Use my 3-Step Program for Clearing Your Mind And Owning Your Thoughts will specifically benefit you once you are smothering from obsessional images.
How to erase the pictures out of your mind. (This age-old, 3-step technique, which I altered from the core of psychological feature therapy, helps to rescue folk who become shipwrecked from all forms of negative and enervating thinking.) Page 53
Another major hurdle we'll jump over is reconstruction your self-confidence. Most likely, you are assumptive personal responsibility for the affair; as a result, you're questioning your self-worth.
This, again, is a really normal response to an affair. That is why I will help you regain what you lost in the course of this tragic time. Not only will my Seven Keys to Unlocking Love and Respect help get you out of the rut, they will help you starting walking with confidence again.
How to reconstruct your self-confidence, self-respect, and self-trust. (These Seven keys will help you for good take control of the hostile waves of insecure thoughts, feelings, and imaginations.) Page 57
As you can imagine, the abraded is not the only one who is pain at this time. Before we come into the second phase of the system, it is imperative that we spend equal time portion the cheating partner cope with their issues.
After you commit criminal speech and expose the news to your partner, there are galore legitimate issues you need activity through before you can hope to restore trust.
Again, this will not be an nightlong process, but if you follow what I say consistently, your partner will eventually warm up to you.
In addition to header with your feelings of guilt, shame, and hopelessness, you mightiness besides be dealing with the emotions directly tied with the affair. These feelings could include withdrawal, which can be intense by the day-to-day hassles of dealing with the paramour (lover) and responding to your partner's questions just about them.
If you have not broken away from the paramour, you will have to do so in order to continue working on your relationship. We will deal with each of the emotional aspects of cutting ties and what to do if the paramour doesn't want to cut ties with you.
You'll discover the following strategies:
"I will I could have see this before I tried to go back to my lover."
"I will I could have see this before I tried to go back to my lover. This time it is over, and I have cut all contact. My husband has forgiven me, and I will activity on reconstruction my marriage. We are several working on it together and disbursement quality time together. I have affected on from the affair and now concentrate on the good things in my marriage. Your information is so valuable to me and spot on. Give thanks you."
Mandy Horeld
Brisbane, Queensland
Like the injured, you will experience strong emotions that could result in intense mental and physical pain. Working through these in sequence will help you process the pain and reconstruct the relationship. The reason why is because galore of the emotions you will experience could be tied to why you had the affair in the 1st place (which we will uncover in Section 4).
Before we can begin to unravel the complex source of the problem, it is crucial that we start reconstructing several element of trust.
After learning just about your affair, the abraded starts to question what is true and what is a lie. At this moment, for the injured, everything is questionable; that is why the only way you will start repairing trust is by being wholly transparent.
At this stage in the game, you will start to see the earth from your partner's perspective and begin to understand how your ss affect their sense of safety. Knowing this information will help you build new levels of safety through transparency and reassurance.
"...gave me a better perspective on the type of emotions my mate is going through."
"Being that I am the one who did the injury to my mate, I don't cognize the "real" impact of my ss. Reading the sections written for the abraded person gave me a better idea of the type of emotions my mate is going through and how I can help him activity through his healing."
Dora Toulon
Brooklyn, NY
Before you start opening up every door, I need to provide several guidelines, including The Five Pitfalls to Developing Transparency and the following:
"...I am being more transparent."
"After my affair, you instructed me how to have a new level of answerability with my wife, and I am being more transparent with her."
Tom Sanders
Ashville, AL
Now that you have taken the time to look inside yourself and taken control of the emotional impact of the affair, you are available to start working with your partner.
This component of the system focuses mostly on portion you establish a healthy way to communicate with your partner. I show you how you can accomplish this, as well as how to approach forgiveness, how to decide once you should talk just about the affair, and how to start learning route to protect your relationship from further harm.
During Phase II, you and your partner will uncover galore important issues, but the number one thing we will establish is.
Most folk do not have the skills to activity through their problems without acquiring showing emotion sucked into the discussion and destroying any positive groundwork they've built.
That is why I spend time portion you manage your emotions and teaching you how to see things from the another person's perspective in Phase I. Without that foundation, working through Phase II would-be be fruitless.
After you've set the groundwork in Phase I, Sections 4-6 will help you come towards forgiveness and get your ship sailing in the right direction.
It is during this phase that you will start uncovering why the affair happened and wherever there are problem areas in your relationship. Once you cognize this information, you will begin talking just about them and resolution them in Sections 5-6.
Talking for the two of you will be the main component of Phase II. Because you have dealt with the majority of your emotions, discussing the details or relative issues will not be so taxing. The abraded partner will not take the details so in person and the cheating partner will be more much sensitive and choose their words really carefully.
At this point, the two of you will sit down and go through my system to uncover:
"...step-by-step directions for re-connecting after 36 years of marriage."
"After the trauma of my husband's betrayal, you gave me hope with a concrete s plan that helped to provide the better atmosphere for a booming new relationship. I appreciate what you have done to give us clear, step-by-step directions for reconnecting after 36 years of marriage. What seems like an impossible task was broken down into, "do this FIRST," then, "do this NEXT," and keeps building on successes. Thanks a lot."
Colleen Talley
Topeka, KS
"I admired your elaborate steps describing how to apologize."
I admired your elaborate steps describing how to apologize and what an apology actually is. I gained information just about how to treat my spouse. I knowing to live by the rule that if I wouldn't yell at him in church, I should not yell at him at home, no matter how angry I am.
Trudy
Albuquerque, NM
After Phase II, you will see a really big transformational change. There will be a stronger commitment to your relationship, a feeling of honesty once you communicate, and a new sense of intimacy, respect, and appreciation for each other.
It is as this point that you will several want to start trusting each another again. You will just need to cognize how to do it.
Unfortunately, I speak to folk who have been in counseling for years and have ne'er knowing what I am just about to teach you in Phase III. These are the critical steps for portion rekindle a couple's flame and solidify a new trusting relationship.
These are the techniques that will help you.
This is going to be by far the most fulfilling experience of the system.
It is at this stage that you will notice more emotional certainty and truthfulness.
With my Five Building Blocks for a Wholly Transparent Relationship, your relationship will begin to flourish with the following qualities:
You will ease into the process of giving your faith back to your partner exploitation the following techniques:
After you start feeling showing emotion connected again, you will begin the physical aspect of your relationship. Intimacy will expand past talking and come slowly back into sex. I will show you how to get past all the mental hurdles and enjoy being with each another once again with the following:
"...you actually hit the nail on the head."
Your section on creating a transparent relationship is fantastic. A couple I have been working with was stuck and still at risk of losing their relationship until now. Your written words spoke so clearly and straight to the point that he now understands what is needful (and why!), and she is feeling sceptered at having see the words to what she was feeling. They feel that you "really hit the nail on the head," and so do I. This is a must-read!"
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Family-Relationship Coach and founder
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Houston, TX
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Cary, NY
As you can see, I have not only put a lot of time into my system, but I have put my life into it.
I could have just written a book and promulgated it, most likely merchandising thousands of copies at amazon.com and Barnes & Noble. If I wanted to do that, I would-be have done the same thing every another Ph.D. with my experience has done:
But I didn't want to write a book, because books don't save marriages. And that's the difference with my system.
Not only is it designed for you to activity through alone (if the another partner isn't willing), but it's designed to be a system of steps that helps you focus on doing the right things in the right order to save your relationship as opposed to calculation it out on your own.
I've done this because I care. I care because I, too, cognize what it's like to be hurt from a divorce. Sandy and I have been happily wedded for over 25 years (January 19th, 1980), but several years before I met her, I was wedded and went through a very painful divorce.
There was no unfaithfulness in our relationship, but after going through that painful experience, I dedicated myself, my life, to understanding how to help wedded couples.
You see, I'm not unique, but I am a minority. Galore counselors will do no commitment in your relationship. For galore thought counselors, they see success even as if you get a divorce.
That is not me!
I am pro-marriage and I will do every thing I can to help you survive, especially through thing as terrible as an affair.
As you can see, if you want to take control of your emotions, have the pain and sadness disappear, and get your relationship back, then the 1st step is up to you.
I divided my step-by-step affair healing system into three phases. These three phases are separated into a total of 10 sections.
However, I don't want you to think just about all 10 sections. I only want you to think just about one. Now I want you to get started with Section 1, entitled My Partner Had an Affair - How to Manage Your Emotions.
If you're the one who cheated, then I want you to go to Section 3, entitled The Cheating Partner - How to Cope with Your Emotions and Restore Trust with Your Partner.
It will only take you 30 minutes to go through your 1st section, but it will save you months, if not years, of continuing grief, sorrow, and anxiety.
I'm only asking you to take this one step at a time and let me prove to you that I can help you. I'm not asking you to trust me, I'm asking you to give me 30 minutes and put me to the test.
If I don't help you regain your sense of control and worthiness, if I don't give you hope and peace of mind and faith that you can get your life back, then you only spent 30 minutes.
But if I do help you.then you'll gain a new life and a new relationship.
But before you do, I want to share a story. Remember Ray and Kathy? Remember all the pain that they went through? Remember how Kathy was available to throw up her hands and give up because nothing ever worked?
Read what Ray had to write just about his relationship with Kathy. (I'll take you through their complete healing process inside my system.)
"There was a point at which several of us knew things were acquiring better. It took me learning to be so transparent that Kathy could have no question just about my loyalty to our relationship. It took lots of conversations. It took time. But eventually, we got there.
"And once we got there, we ne'er wanted to give it up again. Through the course of our conversations, I knowing a whole new side of Kathy. It was like I fell in love with her all over again. I ne'er wanted to lose that, or even as be in danger of losing that, for the rest of my life.
"I truly changed over the course of this whole ordeal. I think Kathy saw that. I think that helped her trust me once again and believe that I wanted to do this relationship activity more than anything. I knew, possibly for the 1st time, that wherever I wanted to be was with Kathy.
"I wanted us to support moving forward, to support learning more and more just about one another, and to continue to deepen our relationship. I was so afraid that we mightiness 'fall off the wagon' and relapse to an earlier version of our relationship.
"What I patterned out eventually was that we could support moving forward as long as we continuing to practice the techniques we had already learned, confronted problems once they arose instead of lease them stew, and continuing to grow several individually and together. It's all just about stability. Once I patterned that ou,t I felt like I found house and I ne'er had to give it up again."
- Ray Brown
Because you have come this far and are available to experience the same benefits as Ray and Kathy and all the another folk I've helped (see my list of hundreds of real folk who have saved their marriage with my system), I want to show you what I am going to provide to help you.
After you get my system now (you can transfer it in less than 3 minutes) you will receive:
My complete 30-year comprehensive step-by-step system, designed to help you activity through the healing and restoration of your relationship after an affair.
Phase I: Individual Healing - Understanding Personal Feelings and Sorting through Emotions
Phase II: Healing As a Couple - Working Together to Identify and Resolve Key Issues
Phase III: Negotiating a Revived Relationship - Understanding How to Reconstruct and Sustain a New Trust-filled Partnership
It's impossible to put a dollar s on a revived life full of stability and safety and a new relationship full of peace and trust.
However, the older I get, the more I am trying to plan for the day I retire. I can't counsel forever, nor do I want to. My goal in life is to empower you to heal yourself. If the last thing I do is perfect a system that empowers a couple to restore their trust in a admiring safe environment, then I will live on in peace.
If I were to go through all the information with you in person in as more detail as I do in my system, it would-be take me close to 10 sessions just to outline the basics. Because of my experience and track record, I have to charge a going rate of $200 per hour. If that were the case, at a minimum, I would-be have to charge you $2000.
However, really few folk could afford that (not to mention they mightiness not be dealing with a willing spouse). So I'm not going to charge you that. Because you will be downloading this immediately, I have NO publication costs, no agent fees, and very little overhead.
However, there's one more really important thing you need to know.
Last week, after measurement several folk who bought my system, I knowing several really sad news.
I wanted to cognize how long ago they found out just about the affair. Out of the group, about 16% found out just about the affair inside the last 7 days, with close to 40% learning the sad news inside the last 30 days.
Immediately after I knowing this information, I spent the next five days change my system, and I wrote two new reports that I will give to you for free because you are purchasing today.
Remember in the beginning of this letter once I told you I could help about everyone (if they were willing to begin right away)?
There is a really important reason for that.
Many folk put off the healing process because they think it means they need to forgive and forget (which is not true). So they wait, and let time be the healer. Even as although you think time can be a great healer, time can besides have a negative effect.
Right after an affair is a really turbulent time. Really hurtful things are aforesaid piece emotions are revved up. If left alone without any intervention, a couple could push themselves past the breaking point and do the healing process near-impossible.
"I will I had see this before the relationship ended."
"The parts of your system that were most helpful to me were the Seven Emotional Trials the Deceiver Wish Face, as well as the section on Becoming Transparent. I ne'er actually looked at it from that point of view. It was really helpful, although a little too late. Unluckily my relationship complete on my birthday. I wasn't aware that my ss just didn't demonstrate a type of "transparent" behavior. I will I had see this before the relationship ended. Give thanks you, I will do it a point ne'er to cheat again."
Veronica Besch
Independence, MO
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P.S. The another day I received this e-mail from Nichole Williams. It's proof that you too can use my system to heal your relationship after an affair and start fresh. See what she had to say.
"...we are starting over with a clean slate"
I have been working for a long time trying to reconstruct trust with my husband after his affair. He felt that just because he was sorry and wanted to activity it out that I should Instantly trust him once again and finish talking just about the affair.
However, I still had questions that were haunting me and could not come forward. Once he see your section on how to reconstruct the trust, he understood more just about what I needful from him!
It is amazing that several of the things mentioned in your section are exactly what I wanted to happen. Of course once I aforesaid it, he didn't give more thought to it, but I guess seeing it in writing from an actual author ready-made it real.
After reading just this one section and understanding what I needful from him, my husband in agreement to answer ANY question I had in regards to his affair. Believe me, it wasn't easy for either one of us to actually have to tell the truth just about what happened on his part and for me to hear it.
But now for the 1st time, I honestly feel like we are starting over with a clean slate.
Thank you Dr. Gunzburg!"
Nicole Williams
Oceanside, CA
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