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Lee Baucom, Ph.D.
Author Of Save The Marriage
From: Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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Let Me Tell You Simply just about Kelly and Greg...
When I 1st met Kelly, she and her husband, Greg, were literally drive to the attorney's office to sign their divorce papers once they distinct to finish at my office!
They were available to end their marriage of 14 years.
For several time. . . years actually. . . neither had been happy. There had been attempts to change, but things always fell apart.
It had been years since either Kelly or Greg felt nice just about their relationship.
In fact, for several time, they had stayed together just for the kids.
Does this sound familiar to you?
There was more sleeping on the couch and in the spare bedroom.
They were perpetually battling over the smallest issue -- which only led to bigger issues.
Threats and yelling were an almost everyday thing.
They several urgently
wanted to be accepted and loved, but neither felt it. The more each tried, it seemed the further they affected apart.
They had tried therapy, self-help books, seminars. But
nothing seemed to do a difference.
It seemed as if they were stuck in a vicious cycle. They knew they needful to change things in their relationship...but they just didn't cognize how.
I'm not going to convert you that I was able to undo years of fighting, troubled and disappointment in a day. But, with what they knowing in my office that day, they distinct to put their at hand divorce "on hold."
Within a few weeks, there was a dramatic
transformation in their marriage...
There were no angry arguments that went nowhere.
There was no "living like roommates" or sleeping on the couch.
There was No name-calling or tearing -down of each other.
Their, antecedently sexless, marriage saw sparks of true pleasure and intimacy again.
Last week, Kelly called to invite me to
their day of remembrance and "re-commitment" ceremony!
Most marriage therapists are not trained to be marriage counselors.
They obtain their training in traditional, individual therapy, and add matrimonial counseling to their practice... after the fact.
In another words, most marriage therapists have little expertness in portion a troubled marriage.
And, once they do offer marital counseling, they are, usually, applying outdated, ineffective strategies that were ne'er intended to help truly troubled marriages.
This is why the best marriage counselors see a
success rate of only 20%. . . if a medical
procedure was that risky. . .
it would-be be outlawed!
I cognize from experience, because I too was defeated with such a low rate of success. I sincerely desired to help my clients to save their marriages. But, the techniques and strategies I knowing in school seemed to be devising things worse!
Once I accomplished that "traditional" methods of marriage medical care don't work, I determined to find and create strategies, techniques and methods that do work.
It led me to abandon more of the "old school" ideas just about how to help troubled couples...and so should you!
Before you can begin your journey toward saving your marriage, you need to finish purchasing into The Four Most Damaging Myths Simply just about Saving Your Marriage.
Do you believe any of the following?
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Anyone Is Capable of
Transforming Their Relationship
Impossible as it may seem, I have created techniques which transform relationships... even as once only one person is trying!
My typical client is a partner that wants to save their relationship once their partner has already "given up."
Most therapists activity from the assumption that, if only one person wanted to activity on the relationship, it was impossible to fix.
I don't approach marriage crises this way. I approach them like an pure mathematics equation. If one side of the equation is changed, the another side must change!
Incredibly, my clients have achieved a better-than-90% success rate. . . even as if only one
partner starts the process!
With Kelly and Greg, it was Kelly who started the process. She found me on the computer network , downloaded Save the Marriage
and began the process of saving the marriage. . . by herself.
Greg was still bent on a divorce, but Kelly still had hope. . . and took s.
Fairly quickly, Greg was less insistent on the divorce, but still assumed it was their only option.
Eventually, He in agreement to spend that hour with me, in person. . . departure their divorce attorneys waiting.
You may be wondering. . ."When Is Saving The Marriage Impossible?"
I have witnessed relationships come
back to life after affairs, bankruptcies,
dishonesty, deception and mid-life crises,
and just just about any other roadblock.
Couple after couple have proven that it is possible to change a relationship and rescue, just about, any marriage from the edge of destruction.
These couples have not just avoided divorce. They have changed the marriages into something wonderful. . . thing better than they had unreal possible.
Anatomy Of A Matrimonial Crisis
No marriage crisis appears overnight.
Rather, the crisis builds slowly over time. One person is, usually, caught wholly off-guard.
. . not realizing there even as was a problem. The another claims that he or she is tired of trying and trying. . . with no change. . . and has "given up."
You see,
the real damage is done once
one person inevitably and expects thing
to change, but the another person is conserving the exact same things. For example, there is often a desire
for a shift in the power structure of the relationship, but one person resists making any change. The another person who wants the change becomes more and more frustrated.
This leads to a pattern wherever
one partner suddenly announces that the marriage is over, and the another partner is unaware that there even as was a problem.
If I had a dime for every time I was told,
"I thought everything was fine, until my partner
asked for a divorce". . .
Unfortunately, the "not knowing" has been translated into "not caring" by the disgruntled
partner and seems to provide proof (for person looking for proof) that the marriage is over.
More marriages die from neglect than thing
else. Often, it is simply a matter of life acquiring in the way. Strangely, thing
as important as marriage gets ignored. More than that, the
relationship shifts from suffering with neglect to a growing animus and antipathy.
On our wedding day, no one expects their marriage to fail.
And once folk rate their priorities, their matrimonial relationship always ranks in the top 3 or 4.
But, according to research, couples spend on average less than 4 minutes per day talking just about
issues that do not include schedules and the kids.
As neglect sets in, this lack of attention chow away at the relationship, slowly erosion the
capacity of the couple to form a substantial relationship.
At this point, it is inevitable that issues
wish arise that create marital crisis. . .
The issue may be another person, a job change, a shift in life circumstances or stage. Once
it comes, one or the another feels the hopelessness of the situation, and moves to resolve the crisis
by getting out of the marriage.
The Stages Of A Crisis
When the crisis is in full swing, it sometimes takes for a while for the another partner to respond.
But, I discovered you can use actually this fact to create a path back to wholeness.
Too galore another programs treat the way back to happiness as only one path.
I believe there are 8 distinct paths
and each must be dealt with wholly differently. What is helpful at one stage can be destructive, or at least counterproductive, at another stage.
I have created a unique and several path for each stage.
These paths have been tested and retested,
and proved really booming for my clients. This is not
"pie-in-the-sky" theory. It is tried, tested,
and re-tested.
It is critical you cognize which stage you are in before you begin devising changes.
It is entirely possible to do the right thing at the wrong time and cause more problems.
You need to cognize EXACTLY which stage of crisis you are facing. Only then, can you begin the healing process. Otherwise, it is probable you wish bring down further damage on your relationship.
The innocent beginnings of a crisis
(neglect, lack of understanding, etc.) can
quickly spin into a crisis that puts the
entire marriage at risk. . .
At this point, the flight of the relationship can become unpredictable.
But, the path back is predictable.
A marriage can fall apart in a million ways.
But, a marriage only recovers in one, certain way. . . there is only one path back. The specific steps on that path may vary (depending on the stage) but the "way back" is the same.
This is the emphasis of my work. . .
the path back.
I have isolated the path back from the verge of destruction. . . all of the way to full recovery of a marriage.
You can't just take the relationship back to "where it used to be." This is not enough.
Couples cannot just get back to where they were once the marriage got in trouble. The marriage always had the beginnings of a crisis.
Instead, it inevitably to get to a place where the marriage is insulated against any futurity crisis.
Achieving an "average" marriage isn't enough. . . you want and need an exceptional marriage!
It's not just just about avoiding divorce. . . it's just about creating the marriage relationship of your private secret dreams. . .
It's not enough to avoid divorce.
Who wants to be in a "mediocre" marriage relationship?
Most couples believe that their marital problems mean that they are destined to , at best, have an "okay" marriage.
This could not be further from the truth. You don't have to settle for thing less than the marriage relationship of your dreams!
In my experience, your current marriage crisis
can be the catalyst for "a new beginning" that
will do your marriage stronger and
better than it has ever been.
In fact, this is my true goal.
I won't feel satisfied unless as galore couples as possible are experiencing everything that they always expected from marriage.
Recovery to average is not good enough.
I have helped hundreds of couples to rescue and transform their marriages and, I want to help thousands more to create exceptional marriages!
This is why I recently sat down and wrote a new book...
"Save The Marriage"
As I aforesaid earlier in this letter, I was aghast to see that there were so galore (virtually) useless "save your marriage" guides offered online.
Unlike my book, most of these "guides" are written by ghost writers that are hiding behind a pretty picture. I am a "real, live" person that you can actually contact (see the bottom of this page).
And, the guides written by actual professionals are, for the most part, based on tired, old and ineffective "traditional" theories of counseling that only accomplish 20% effectiveness. . . . once used in person, in a therapist’s office!
I felt as if I had to do accessible the
unique, several and (most importantly)
effective private secrets that I had discovered
in my practice.
My goal is to save as many marriages as possible.
Chances are, you wish probably not have the chance to visit me, in person.
But, I can still provide you with the information and the assistance you need to actually start saving your marriage. . . through Save The Marriage.
Together, through Save The Marriage
(and the enclosed
email consultation),
we can save your marriage!
Save The Marriage wish give you an understanding of what happened to your marriage, how to save it, and how to start creating the marriage of your dreams.
You wish benefit from my, nearly, twenty years of working with clients, in person,
and literally, thousands of couples in various settings.
Don't expect hundreds of pages that just repeat what everyone else has already said.
Instead, I have ready-made the ideas and information clear and easily understood. No "psycho
-babble" here, just the facts, ideas, and ss you need to save your marriage. In 170 pages, I wish tell you what went wrong, what to do to change it, and how to do it.
Starting tonight. . . in fact, in the next 10 minutes, you can start saving your marriage and moving toward the marriage relationship you always unreal
about.
Can you imagine how fantastic it feel to, finally, eliminate the fear, anxiety and stress that presently
envelopes you. . . and replace it with feelings of love, joy and contentment?
You don’t have to imagine it. . . because, with the private secrets and strategies you wish find in
Save The Marriage, you wish be solidly on the path from marital frustration to matrimonial bliss!
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Just Several Of What You'll Discover...
The Top 5 Mistakes folk do once
a crisis arises.
The "real" secrets to a healthy, stable, admiring marriage.
How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).
How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your marriage!
Why "hard work" on the relationship isn't always the answer.
How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage's future.
Why "low mood therapy" is destined for failure and how
"high mood relating" does the difference.
How to
come on the far side
emotions and take s!
How to find the
North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.
Why
true intimacy is a lot closer than you think--and how to get there!
What "the TIE Elements of Communication" are, and how they can transform your communication.
How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
Why arguing is a waste of time -- and the amazingly simple secret to get about it.
How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
How to deal with problems involving sex or money.
How to make paradigm shifts
(literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
Much, more much just about
how to transform your relationship.
How to begin saving your marriage beginning in less than an hour, possibly in less than 10 minutes!
In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams .
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