From a practicing Marriage and Family Healer that has spent over 60,000 hours portion hundreds and hundreds of couples in his 30 year career as a professional!

“Discover how YOU (Yes, Several OF YOU!) can put several serious passion into your sexual relationship piece avoiding the pitfalls that are known*, on the far side any doubt, to bring every marriage to a bally end.”

From: Dr. Apostle D. Atwood

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Accredited Master Societal Worker
Clinical Member, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

Dear Visitor,

Have you wondered just about what life would-be be like if you didn’t have to cope with the in progress frustration that goes with living in a relationship that is, by one definition or another, sexless?

What if there is a way for you and your partner to break out of the gridlock? What if the two of you could get UNstuck from the struggle that is suck the life right out of your relationship? Imagine… what tremendous energy you could get from being able to create a relationship that has not only more intimacy, but more sexual satisfs for several of you?

Well the honest truth is that there are route that each of you can break the traffic jam that has you stuck! There are actual steps that you can take that will come you several closer to a more intimate and titillating relationship!

You might be tempted to just blow-off this promise of practical help. Don’t do it! Don’t give in to the negative doubts that have contributed to the quandary you are in right now. Listen to these words of hope. Take just a couple of minutes and see just about several of the tips you’ll be given that will help you to activity with, and through the struggles that are threatening your relationship.

Here’s a sneak peak at several of the practical tips that you will learn.

But first, I have to explain thing important to you, or you will be thinking I’m a bit crazy!

I’ve found that a lot of men need to discover just about their own sexuality, and their partner’s sexuality. It isn’t that women are so more wiser just about sexuality, but they do seem to be – in general – more educated and more willing to learn.
Don’t get me wrong. I cognize that just about half of the folk who come to this website are women, which does the another half men! Simple truth is, guys need a little more help in keep and encouragement to activity at increasing intimacy and eroticism. Given that fact, here is what I’ve done.

I’ve written a travelogue!

Yes, a “Travelogue through the Land of Sexless Marriage Problems.”

Real straight proposal for real straight guys and gals, with several occasional humor! (This can be a tough subject to activity with. A lot of feelings can get stirred up. So let’s chuckle a little on the way!)

Is your relationship stuck on the
side of the road because you are anxious
just about approaching each another sexually?

Yes, if you are stuck… I’ve got thing that can rescue you from your dilemma!

Here is a partial list of the content enclosed in Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage. You will doubtless recognize yourself in one or more of these Chapters.

Who else is out there traveling through “the land of sexless marriage problems?” Armed with the right facts you mightiness be able to feel more “normal.”
Anxious? Of course you are! This is an adventure! But too more of the wrong anxiety will kill your libido. Possibly you are already suffering form the wrong anxiety?
Anxiety is feedback on how well you are drive with your partner. Once your anxiety is low, you are just fine…cruising along… just fine. If your anxiety is high, you are in trouble!
Let’s look at your drive record – personal history, sexual history, and relationship history. All three are important. And any of these three from your history can be messing up your sexual desire in the present.
Where you now and wherever are are you going on this journey? Yes, let’s take a look at your present relationship and what is acquiring in the way today.
Here’s a Pocket Map that will show you wherever you mightiness be off track. Oh, oh… so galore folk have found this incredible little tool to be tremendously useful. Four levels for building a relationship. Screw up this gradual step-by-step process and you invite trouble. Do it right, and blissfulness is your destination.
Who are you traveling with? Who is your partner? The works of Myers and Briggs can help you to know. Use this time-tested and deeply researched tool to understand your own fundamental temperament, and your partner’s. Take several of the mystery out of who you each are.
You and your partner are different. You enjoy arousal differently. Your engine gets turned on differently. You have several attitudes toward oral sex. Lots of differences. Time to finish and take a look at several of these differences and how they mightiness be acquiring in the way.
Substance abuse, pornography, masturbation, sex addictions, anger… all mightiness be devising it difficult to travel together. Yes, once this stuff is present it can be really difficult to get turned-on.
How just about the travel games you play, and your several styles of “driving?” Do you like to play games? Does your partner? Several are a turn-on, and several are a turn-off.
Are you test-driving, leasing, or owning? Each is a several level of commitment. Some of us don’t want to do love with a partner that has a partial commitment.
How well tuned-up are each of you? If you have mechanical problems you’ll have a break down. And oh my, can there be a lot of mechanical problems! The actually bugger is that a lot of mechanical problems aren’t obvious.
Have enough gas, enough energy for the trip? Exhausted? Empty? Too pooped to pop? This is the single BIGGEST complaint from couples who come into my office. “We are just too tired to get it on.”
Oops, a real breakdown. Wherever do you go for wayside service? To your M.D.? Several kind of counselor? Here are several practical tips just about who is nice for what problem.
On a life-long trip, how do you stay psyched up and not bored? I’ve been wedded 36 years myself, and in about all ways, I still feel like I’m 21 years old! But, I have been bored on the way. There are smart route to address the boredom, and there are actually dumb ways.
What are those gauges on the dashboard? Your arousal threshold, orgasmic threshold, and your subjective emotional responses can help you to stay on the road. Take a look at these diagrams and numbers out how well you are doing. If thing is amiss, you better pull over and address it… now!
Some of the common problems encountered on any road trip, such as not being able to turn over the engine, questions of gender identity, female “mechanical” problems, his struggle to keep it up, pop the clutch with premature ejaculation, etc.
How to spend your time piece traveling together – talking, growing, being silent, and giving road-head! Yup, this can actually be a close and intimate, as well as an titillating trip!
What to do once traveling together sucks (or doesn’t) and you aren’t happy any longer. Should you pull over and call the trip off? What?
Picking up hitch hikers – 7 kinds of affairs of the heart and genitals. Two’s company; three’s a crowd.
Falling asleep at the wheel – benign and hostile neglect. My own father told me that this was the single biggest contributor to marriage problems. He was right.
Necessary pit stops to relieve your self. Yes, sometimes it is perfectly necessary to pull over at a rest stop.
Getting lost on the journey, and finding your way back home. Guys don’t like to use maps, of course. But, you several can get lost at times. Here is a map of the human journey that we are all on, and what you can do to get back on track.
Running out of gas for the journey. Are you too pooped to put out? Back to this subject again! It is so critical. Most of life is suck us dry!
Unexpected problems that actually finish you – mental, emotional, physical, relative and cultural breakdowns. Don’t pretend this stuff isn’t happening if it actually is. Take and inventory, and address it now so that eroticism and intimacy are rekindled.
Electrical problems – when the spark is gone. Of course, the spark always goes out after a few years. Here is several proposal on how to address this ever so common challenge.
The point system – acquiring busted by the cops for bad behavior. I’m talking just about actually bad behavior. Once you have done thing dreadfully wrong, or your partner has… it can be a challenge to get past it.
Tips for drive through bad weather – several of them are obvious, and some of them mightiness seem kinky. Enough said.
What to do once you get car sick, or just plain sick physically. How do you do love with person who is ill and throwing up?
Crashes – like once your erection fails you, or romantic interludes fail, or once you activity real hard and can’t come. Broken dreams should be temporary setbacks, not permanent states of despair.
Dead ends – abuse, either physical or emotional. This is the time to drop the monger to the metal, and get going… and get out!
The role of a regular 3,000-mile maintenance check-up. “You can pay me now, or you can pay me later.”
Cruising on and visiting scenic overlooks – everything is beautiful! Yes, there are moments of great joy and eternal bliss… moments that will be remembered forever.
Marking and celebrating your progress. You’ve ready-made it! You have traveled THROUGH the Land of Sexless Marriage Problems. Celebrate! And share your story with others who need to go on a road trip.

There are, in fact, 50 chapters in Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage! I've only shared several of the topics covered in several of the chapters.

Where did I get the information I’m giving you?

Great question!

As you see the following emails see if you don’t recognize your self.

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A man wrote me and said…“My married woman lost her job 5 months ago and is having a hard time finding a new one. She is feeling down and depressed and is putt our relationship aside. She is besides only into her feelings, and our sex life in the past 6 months has gone from bad, to worse. There is hardly any passion or playfulness left. Any advice?” Well, believe it or not, this is a pretty easy one.

Relationships that lack satisfying sex are normally coupled with depression. What compounds the challenge is that the medications prescribed to treat the depression actually diminish sexual desire. What a dilemma! The cure can cause the disease!

Here is another situation that is pretty clear. “Nearly a year ago, my married woman had a complete ablation at the age of 30. Now she says she has no sex drive at all. Possibly I am being a self-centered jerk, but, I am still human and I still have wants and needs. This is starting to put a lot of stress on me. Can thing be done just about this before it ruins our relationship? Help!”

There are any number of physical challenges that face men, but women are especially vulnerable because of the complexness of their arousal system. It involves “hardware” as well as “software” and challenges with either can result no desire for sex.

It gets harder once “family enmeshment,” as we Marriage and Family Therapists refer to it, gets involved. “My fellow and I have been together for 3 years and we have a child together. He lived with his parent until I got my 1st apartment, and then he affected in with me. Bit by bit he started to spend more time with his friends, and less with me. Our sexual relationship just shriveled up to nothing. He wouldn’t talk just about it, so I told him to leave. He went home to his mother’s. We have worked a lot of our problems out since then, but he won’t come back in with me. What should I do?”

Enmeshment, alliances, power struggles, identity confusion, lousy communication . . . there are a lot of “family dynamics” that can show up in the bedroom, or keep you out of the bedroom!

Sometimes the issues get complex and superimposed one on top of another. “Right before we got wedded I started experiencing a lack of sexual interest. As we have stayed wedded it has declined to nothing. My husband insisted that I go into medical care just about 5 years ago to deal with this. He has an extremely high sex drive, has always been Really interested in porno and now is, I think, alcohol-dependent to pornography. As time affected on, I always felt that he was trying to force me or hale me or scare me into being more sexual with him. He thinks the greatest intimacy comes from sex, and I don’t think like that. He feels at bay and like he is desperate to escape. He believes he can find person more sexually compatible. What can I do to reach out to him? How can I help him? I try to listen to his anger and let him cognize that I understand how he feels. I want to be supportive. Most of all, I don’t want to lose him, but I am afraid it is too late. Any suggestions would-be be so appreciated.” Wow . . . I had to think just about this one for a week before I wrote her back! The really stability of a admiring relationship can be upset by incompatible appetites for sex.

There are a lot of complex issues encompassing one’s “arousal threshold” and “orgasmic threshold” that all mix together under one heading: “the control of sexual desire.”

Then there are the special issues that pop up, such as this. “All of my past partners were always happy to proceed in oral sex. Whenever my new partner pleasures me with oral sex he can’t get an erection. What is this about? No one ever had this problem with me before?” So she has several challenges and he has several challenges, and as is always the case, the relationship suffers. In fact, more than half of the men, and twenty-five percentage of the women report through my research that their marriage is in "serious trouble" because of the lack of satisfactory sex in their relationship.

Are you in one of those relationships that is in “serious trouble” because of a lack of sex?

I sure hope not. But if you are, then look at what you are doing right now!

You are here, and you are doing thing just about the challenging relationship in which you find yourself.

You are not helpless!

You are taking s!

That is a great sign of hope!

Together, with my expert advice, and
your serious effort, change is possible!

You can “Get it on!”

Here are two honest emails I’ve received from folk who have taken several s. The 1st reader is responding not just to my eBook, but to one of the FREE BONUS OFFERINGS that are included.

“Hi - We (read my wife) bought your online book - Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage - which I see with enthusiasm - several of the content was relevant to our situation and gave an insight into our domestic situation. I relate a lot to the "steel donut" as I am decidedly B w/my married woman the dominant A. Thanks once again for the nice read."
- Paul

This next reader is responding to an email she sent me… several than the one’s I’ve enclosed above. She gets it! She understands that my advice, my perspective, my encouragement can actually help!

"Dear Dr. Atwood:

From the bottom of my heart, I will to give thanks you for such a caring, thoughtful and professional response. How blessed I am to have stumbled upon your web site. I knowing a great deal from reading your response, and was touched by the time you put into it. I think you're right on the money. . . Thanks to you, I realize my really large part in my own mess; I realize I've compete a staring role in my own suffering. I shall see your on-line book and then endeavor with all my mightiness to come on the far side reading to taking s on what I've read.

Thank you for your fantastic response - and wake up call. M.G."

I’ve spent over 60,000 hours with folk over the last 30 years, and a lot of those folk have struggled with a lousy sexual relationship. You see, I am a Accredited Marriage and Family Healer and a Accredited Master Societal Worker in Michigan, and the co-founder of the Fountain Hill Center for Counseling and Consultation. Today, I activity with 11 another folk in a multi-disciplinary group wherever we are all trying to help folk to take the next step on their journey of life.

“Helping folk to get along,
and to get ahead in life.”

That’s my mission. In order to be helpful to folk who are troubled with a lack of sexual desire in their relationship, I have created this website. Truthfully, I am the “content expert” and my son, Dave, is the Webmaster. It is a great team effort here; my right-brain and his left-brain! There are others involved as well, but you can check that out on your own by going to our House Page.

Yes, Dave and I have created HopefulSolutions.net together. I’ve developed the content, and he has created the website.

There is a “Method to my Madness!”

Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage is a tool that will help the two of you to dialogue at a deeper level just about the really personal and touchy subject of your sexual relationship.

The folk who visit this website are just about equally split, 50% are men, and 50% are women. I find that to be rather interesting, and sing.

Piece several men and women come to this site, it is preponderantly the women who are able to talk just about the sensitive and personal issues involved in their sexual challenges.

We all cognize that women tend to go for medical care more often than do men. Women can talk just about their feelings more easily.

I spoke on the phone last week with a woman I’ve ne'er met, nor will I ever meet. She was on her cell phone talking with me from inside a closet at her parent’s house. We talked just about her relationship with her partner and she said, “Oh, I’m blushing…”

The challenges you several are facing are probably really difficult to talk about… but if you don’t, change won’t happen.

I’ve created a tool that will help you two
to talk with each other.

Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage is written, as I have shown you, about a metaphor… a road trip that the two of you are taking. Yes, it is the journey of life that you are several on.

This literary technique gives me the opportunity to use several humor, some symbols that guys can grasp, and several language that the two of you can share without acquiring too embarrassed. By publication through the Computer network like this I am able to use common language to talk just about common subject. So, YES, all of this is “sexually explicit.”

There are 50 Chapters in Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage, and as you can see, they all hang together as “A Traveler’s Guide.” Makes it a little silly at points, but it is a way of working with a subject that all too often does folk anxious. Silly stuff is easier to talk over than heavy serious stuff.

There are three route to get your own
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You can just click on the ORDER BUTTON below and you will be taken through a simple process that is safe and secure. You can be reading a downloadable version inside minutes.

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Here’s another email. “My husband and I rarely have sex. I crave for his affection. It’s about as if he finds sex sinful. I have to ask all the time. He doesn’t kiss, nor does he show me any affection. I don’t feel connected anymore. In fact, I’m not sure if I want to stay wedded to him. He claims that he loves me, but can’t seem to find the time for intimacy. I’m lucky if we have sex once a month. What should I do?” Take my eBook, Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage, and ask him to see it, and then you two sit down and see it together, chapter-by-chapter, and get several dialogue going. Don’t let him off the hook. See and talk. See and talk. That will create more intimacy right there! But, DO NOT LET HIM OFF THE HOOK! Don’t do his anxiety go away by avoiding the whole situation! Hold you own hand, manage your own anxiety, and keep kind pressure on him! Stick with it, and you will get UNstuck!

Believe me, I cognize that you mightiness doubt my optimism, but I have seen folk change, and I have seen folk grow to love, and do love with each another in new and life ever-changing ways.

“But, what should I do now to change this?”

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Don’t give up hope!

So often in life we face a crisis, we activity and activity to find a resolution that will bring us relief, but it isn’t until we are available to give up (or, until we have given up!) that some miraculous answer comes from somewhere out of the blue!

Stop right wherever you are, take a deep breath, and get centered. I’ll give you several tips on how you can do that in Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage. The more anxious you get, the worse the problem becomes.

Work Now with the proposal I am offering you. Learn the truth that will set you free! See on and “reflect and write.” Look at who you each are, journal some, and get your head straight just about the challenges you each are facing.

Use my material to get several healthy dialogue going inside your own head, and between the two of you. I cognize from decades of experience that it is easier for two folk to talk together just about what is in my eBook, than it is to look at each another – eye-to-eye – and talk just about oral sex, (for example). I’ve tried to include just just about every subject in my eBook, so you two can talk just about “it.”

Don’t misconstrue me – I am working hard to foster more intimacy between the two of you. We are after “making love,” not just “screwing.”

“Okay, so what if I don’t find your eBook to be helpful. Then what?”

Great question!

I cognize that you have struggled for several time with the challenges that have pushed you to the side of the road. None of this just popped up yesterday, did it?

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The fact is that if either of you, or several of you see and talk, talk and read, back and forth… you will develop a greater depth of intimacy about a subject that is really sensitive to most people. If your partner won’t read… YOU can see out loud!

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“I’m a male who has been wedded for about 23 years and the past 22 have been nearly void of sex. For the past several years, I have given up initiating sex, as my advances were rejected the majority of the time. Which would-be drive me wholly balmy and do me really angry, besides devising me feel wholly undesirable. I feel miserable and sometimes depressed. I cognize I would-be be a more happier person if I had a normal sex life, and it would-be be easier for me to show non-sexual affection. Please tell me your thoughts on this situation.”

Or, are you already like this?
After all, person did actually send this
email to me.

And believe, me, I have had others who have challenged me to think and feel right on with them as they struggle with shame, control, anxiety, fear, guilt, anger, and utter confusion.

This all can be improbably difficult for several of you.

But remember . . .There is hope!

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Here’s hoping you have a fantastic life together!

Warm Regards,

Dr. Apostle D. Atwood
Accredited Marriage and Family Therapist
Accredited Master Societal Worker
DrAtwood@HopefulSolutions.net

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