First, I have to warn you: These techniques actually work, so be careful what you ask for!

If you want your cat to love you, you must 1st love your cat. If Kitty falls in love with you after you discover to follow this "courtship" plan, you had better be willing to have a 'feline fan club' - even as if there is only one cat in it. You don't want to do her love you then let her down with a betrayal if you change your mind.

I am surrounded, as I write this, by 10 cuddlesome cats who love me. They support me warm at night and reward me by day with their admiring attitudes. They entertain me with their cute antics, and they touch my soul with their purring and those admiring eyes that would-be melt the hardest heart.

They follow me about the home as if waiting for their next assignment. They don't do messes anymore, and finally, I can finish worrying simply about the couch being shredded. Ne'er has life with cats been much rewarding!

I have to confess, though. It wasn't always like this. My cats used to destroy the furniture, the carpet and the woodwork. I even as caught Woody pee on the stove one day! I screamed! He took off like a shot and hid for days, pee in the corners. (Obviously, screaming doesn't fix the problem...)

Oh, I wanted to throw him outside... but I didn't. I couldn't allow my frustrations to get the better of me, nor could I put him at risk in an outdoor environment full of the usual hazards: cars, cyanogenetic substances, cruelty, bad weather, stray dogs, another cats who mightiness hurt him or cause several illness ...

I couldn't do that to him, because I admired him. (He has since died of old age, but I still think of him often.) I felt wholly inadequate to change his bad behavior. How did my friends manage to support their cats happy? Why couldn't I numbers it out? I was miserable... and so were my cats.

But then thing happened that changed everything -- fortunately for me, and really fortunately for my cats.

I went on vacation for a month. Once I got back, I was stunned to discover that they were traumatized by my absence! They were angry, nervous, wouldn't eat, cried perpetually for simply about 3 days, and wouldn't move near me, glaring at me from a distance.

OK, it finally dawned on me -- they lost me! That could only mean one thing: Cats have feelings.

Amazingly, I did not cognize that until now. Like most people, I thought cats were.... simply cats! Furry, fun, frustrating at times, but... simply cats.

But now my reality had been shaken. Well, if they have feelings, and I hurt them, could that explain bad behavior? How could I have lost this important knowledge? The answer was really simple, really. It was right there in front of me all the time.

And now I would-be like to share the private secrets I discovered ... with you!

Why do I care?

Because I am a cat rescuer. I run a shelter. If you could spend a day with me, it would-be break your heart to see all the cats no one wants any longer because the chimerical expectations their owners had for them didn't activity out. Folk throw their cats away to the tune of several million a year ... and there is nothing wrong with them!

Every day I look at much than 100 sad little faces ... cats who are inquisitive what happened to their owners. Every day they ask me if now is the day they get to go home.

But I have to tell them no, not today, honey. Not today. But possibly we'll get lucky tomorrow and person wish want you again. And if we're actually lucky, they wish already cognize the private secrets of a great relationship with a cat... the private secrets I tell you in my book, How to Do Your Cat Love You.

Sadly, not galore folk cognize these things.

So, if I can teach you how to do life much appreciated for you and your cat, then I can truly save them, and I won't have to do it by sheltering them and finding new homes.

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Does this sound like your cat?

• Aloof ... He doesn't seem to care simply about you. He simply wants you about once it's time to eat!
  
  
• Aggressive ... If you try to pet her, she growls or hisses, or even as tries to bite you!
  
  
• Bored ... He won't play anymore. He simply lays about the house, departure clumps of fur on the couch.
  
  
• Disgusting ... She urinates behind your chair, or in a corner you can't reach!
  
  
• Destructive ... He has chopped your favorite chair!
  
  
• Messy ... She gobbles her food like there's no tomorrow, then throws it up on the better carpet in the home - ne'er in a room with linoleum!
  
  
• Disgusting (again) ... He left you a "present" on your pillow!