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Dating GuideThe breakdown of relationships and why they fail
by:
Jack Crow
All females need sexual tension from a prospective or existing partner to consider having or continued
to have, a physical relationship with them. Lose this from the start and you wish become politician
of the friend zone.
Definition of sexual tension - Assertive
and funny. A loud mouth, walking the thin line of winding her up without too
violative
her. Motion as a challenge and not doing everything she says without a bit of give and take.
No sexual tension = a dead relationship.
There are 4 general types of relationship.
THE FRIEND ZONE RELATIONSHIP
Familiarity without sexual tension. (Usually the male not opening his mouth to challenge a girl he Actually fancies.) This leads to self-complacency in that the female becomes numb to the presence of the male (because he doesn't stimulate her showing emotion
through lack of communication) and associates him as a societal partner only. This leads to, the friend zone. The male is for good
seen as a non sexual friend only. Once a female has ready-made up her mind that you are a friend and she says the F word. It is the kiss of death for any attraction you have for her. You wish ne'er
have a physical relationship with her from this point onward and wish spend the rest of your time with her, hearing how she got off with this great guy at the weekend. All the spell you're dying inside. Once
you eventually tell her how you truly feel and she rejects you. She wish sit and wonder why you are not respondent the phone any much as you were a great auditor to her problems.
PURLEY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
Purely physical attraction. After a spell a lack of sexual variety leads to self-complacency in several parties. Tedium
/ lack of sexual tension does several parties become fed up with each else quickly. This leads to a breakup of the relationship and several parties go their separate ways. This type of relationship can be prolonged if several parties are willing to explore their sexual fantasies and support variety in the bedroom. The long term practicableness
of such a relationship is still in question.
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & SEXUAL TENSION
Physical attraction + sexual tension equals love at 1st site. Female tries to change male to her ideal pictures of a man. The male resists, lack of conformity equals continued
sexual tension which equals a long lasting relationship viewed as love in a love hate relationship.
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & SEXUAL TENSION VERSION 2
Physical attraction + sexual tension equals love at 1st site. Female tries to change male to her ideal pictures of a man. The male conforms and no longer poses a challenge. Female gets bored as there's no sexual tension any more. Relationship starts to slip. Male thinks everything is ok as he is doing everything she wants but in reality, she has lost all interest in him. It is at this point that she wish either stay with him in a strictly
partnership arrangement or leave him as presently
as a better male comes on
that stimulates her emotionally.
THE OVER POSSESSIVE PARTNER
The above scenarios do not take into account over possessive partners that bully or smother their partners to the point that they leave or attack them. This is better-known in several circles as 'a bunny boiler'. So named after the film fatal attraction wherever
an obsessed John glenn Close cooks the family's pet rabbit in a revenge attack for Archangel
Politician spurning her advances after a brief sexual relationship.
Usually over greed
stems from the insecurities or lack of trust in one partner. (They may have been hurt in the past and are determined to not let it happen again, to the point wherever
it becomes an obsession.) Or they're a total psycho, run for it!
Relationship number 4 is the most common. In general you wish see it spell at the buying center. The husband pushes the tram and every time the better half speaks, it's either yes dear or no dear. The husband has conformed to do what the female requires in order to have a quiet life. The female thinks she is superior, in control and has perfect
the art of man handling.
In reality she is destroying the mans animal attraction to her. She is slowly desensitizing him into an affair with causal agency else. Little does she cognize it but as he no longer poses a challenge to her, she is slowly becoming numb to him. As his animal instinct is tamed and he finds her attractive less and less, they wish suddenly, one day, find themselves in a loveless marriage.
They wish at this point be co-existing in a strictly
partnership based relationship for the sake of survival or because of children. This has lead to relationships breaking up after 30 years of marriage and several partners wonder why their marriage is so lifeless.
It has been represented
as 'the spark fizzling out'. In reality it is the lack of sexual tension or sexual variety. Remember, a female thinks with her emotions and a man thinks with his…..err….physical attraction mechanism.
If a male no longer stimulates her emotionally, she wish seek it elsewhere. Equally if a female is no longer sexually attractive to a man, he too wish look elsewhere.
Don't get me wrong ladies, several things can't be reversed, like aging and the passage of time, but there are route to grow old and still be sexy to a male partner. A boring sex life is a instruction
for disaster and being sexy is much than a lack of wrinkles. If in doubt, it's time to start experimenting in the chamber to see what pushes his and your buttons. Explore each others sexual fantasies and do things you only dream simply about at night spell your partner is asleep. You'll be astonished how quickly your relationship bounces back as a result.
If you have any sense you wish heed my warning weather you are male or female, wedded or simply starting a relationship. Try to support the sexual tension alive between the two of you. If not, you wish be on the next train to dumpsville questioning why he or she slept with causal agency else.
Just simply about the author:
Jack Crow is a freelance writer and part time webmaster. Once
he's not building web sites he's checking out new qualitative analysis
sites that appear on the net.
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