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Dating GuideThe Logic Of Females - Or Lack There Of
by:
Jack Crow
Galore males complain that they don't understand females. Galore females complain that they don't understand males. We besides have the classic expression that men are from mars and women are from venus. Physically several sexes are really similar and are of the same species so what is the problem?
After more reading on the subject, there seems to be a general agreement that there is a fundamental difference in the way men and women think. The bottom line is that men think with logic but women think with emotions. This is why a male gets so defeated with a females sometimes irrational behavior.
Additionally, a female seldom
says directly what she wants. Instead, she wish use reverse psychological science by asking the male a series of questions until she gets the desired answer. If she makes not get the desired answer she wish take the huffs and give the male 'the cold shoulder treatment'. She thinks this wish alert the male that thing
is wrong and he wish do what she wants….with out really telling him |:(
Meanwhile the male is left dazed and confused as to what happened. After which an argument is normally required to get to the bottom of the problem. The whole situation could have been avoided if the female had declared directly what she wanted in the 1st place.
When asked why they do this, most women wish either answer that they don't realize they're doing this or they just don't cognize why. Galore an argument could be avoided if what came out of a girls mouth was the same as the thought that was processed in her brain. But alas, it is not.
The classic example is a couple drive on
a road. The female is hungry so she says to the male 'would you like to get thing
to eat?' The male replys 'no thanks I'm not hungry at the minute' and keeps driving. She then takes it thick because she didn't get the answer she was looking for. If she had aforesaid 'I'm hungry, pull in at the next shop so I can get several food' he would-be have done just that without question.
This all stems back to the fact that a female thinks with her emotions, not logic. This is why a male cannot understand a females rational. Males cannot see between the lines. They are not psychic or clairvoyant and they need everything spelled out to them in black and white.
Males often besides complain that females are moody, have mood swings and show irrational or erratic behavior. This is especially apparent in times of stress, emergencies or significant events wherever
body chemicals and emotions are extremely
stimulated.
Because a females behavior is affected by her emotions and her emotions are affected by her body chemistry and her body chemistry is in a state of flux from one month to the next, it can only be expected that a female would-be exhibit erratic behavior that is a mystery to a man whose body makes not go through a constant monthly cycle of change. Re-read that last paragraph guys if it went over your head.
Unfortunately this behavior is genetically built into a females body. So sorry guys, you are going to have to live with it and piece you can't get rid of it, you can at least be aware of it and try to understand it.
So in short, guys need to try to interpret better what a girl is saying, as it may not be exactly what she means. Girls need to try better to say exactly what they mean, if they want their guy to do what they want, without playing head games with them. Weather this is really possible (as it goes against our genetic programming) is another case entirely.
Just about the author:
Jack Crow is a freelance writer and part time webmaster. Once
he's not building web sites he's checking out new geological dating sites that appear on the net.
To see what he thinks of them visit:
http://www.sexy-american-singles.com
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