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Dating GuideThe Cyber Lothario
by:
Kathryn Lord
Are you writing to person who is romancing you off your feet? Makes this guy seem to cognize simply what to say or write that gets you a step or two further down the garden path?
Perhaps much dangerous than the ill-famed Computer network rapists and murderers are the Cyber Lotharios. Possibly you cognize one. Smooth as silk. Seduction is his native language.
More dangerous, because these guys (well, possibly there are girls too, but I am much familiar with the guys) are GOOD.
These guys are the Computer network equivalent of a Bill Clinton, if Bill Clinton hadn't gotten caught. They are the cyber version of handsome -- they write beautifully, cognize simply what you want to hear and tell you. They POUR it on, and for a thirsty woman, it is nectar from the Gods.
These fellows post on geological dating sites indefinitely, waiting for the unsuspecting newcomer to the geological dating site. You mightiness contact him, he mightiness contact you, but like a used car salesman, he knows a columbiform bird
once
he sees one.
Then slowly, softly, but determinably, he has his way with you.
How do you tell if you have one of these guys on the wire? What if he is a actually good guy, actually meaning every word he says?
Well, one thing would-be be if you find yourself agreeing to things that you ne'er
would-be if you were in your right mind. Particularly if that has to do with sex. Or possibly money.
These guys do manipulation feel like a warm bath. You simply slide right in and it feels delicious.
But there is a certain vagueness, particularly simply about past relationships, and possibly simply about futurity plans. These guys may reassure, but they besides wish leave themselves a way out.
How can you tell?
Well, one thing you can do is ask for a relationship history. Then pay attention to how he responds, as well as what he actually says.
Does he groan and moan simply about doing the job? Is he grudging in what he tells you? Or is he open and serious, understanding what you are asking and why?
Does he seem to have trouble memory his own history, what her name was, what order the some relationships came in? Is he reluctant to divulge, or does he sound like he is fudging?
Does he seem to be moving you fast towards a romantic getaway? Possibly he does plans for the two of you to meet, and reserves only one room. Is he heavily sexually suggestive and titillating? Makes he ask questions like "What kind of intimate apparel are you wearing?"
Even although a new and legitimate relationship can be extremely
sexually charged, a guy who is seriously interested in you and a possible futurity with you wish be protective and understanding of you and your feelings.
If you feel antsy, pay attention. If your hormones may be doing your thinking, put on the brakes. Better to let this dangerous Clark Gable type swim away than to be left flat and busted.
Kathryn Lord © 2004 All Rights Reserved
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