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Dating GuideSecrets to Acquiring Wedded and Living Merrily Ever After
by:
Terry Hernon MacDonald
As a young girl, I developed a dim view of marriage.
Most of my friends' mothers tiptoed about their fathers. Once
I was nine years old, my friend Karen's auntie actually sat us down and gave us tips on how to get a man and support him happy (it didn't escape my notice that she ready-made dinner, mopped the floor, and changed diapers piece her aristocrat slept on the couch. I ne'er
even as ready-made eye contact with the man; he remained comatose for the length of our acquaintance).
As I got older, magazines offered proposal
on how to get a man to commit and how to decipher his feelings (expecting the guy to express them would-be be out of question).
I got the message: To be a success in life, I needful a man. That they were a lot of activity was the cost I had to pay for being a woman.
Like most little girls, I was oversubscribed from birth on the wedding fairy tale: the giant ring, the dress, the honeymoon in the sun. But, piece the wedding looked like fun, life on the far side
it looked like the job from hell.
So it's no surprise that once
I got into my 20s I attracted the wrong men. They all feared commitment or had several sort of emotional web that prevented them from starting a real relationship with me.
After galore years and more soul searching, I discovered that the men weren't the problem. I was the problem. I attracted men who could not commit because I didn't want to commit. Deep down I believed marriage would-be bore me at best, kill me at worst.
But, still, a small part of me did want to get wedded and wanted to believe that womb-to-tomb happy relationships were so
possible. I determined what I wanted in a relationship, what would-be do me feel secure, at peace, and bring me joy. I wrote down a list of the qualities my perfect husband would-be offer.
Since I had a history of geological dating men who defeated me (liars, cheaters, guys who simply stopped-up career or showing up), I knew what I qualities I didn't want. I wanted person loyal, loving, reliable, successful, and fun (most wedded folk are bored out of their minds, so 'fun' was key for me).
I wrote an affirmation: "I am merrily wedded to a loyal, loving, reliable, successful, fun man" and wrote it 25 times a day with feeling (putting on a CD that actually got me going expedited
the process).
Within a couple of weeks, I felt a shift inside myself. I believed that I could marry a man who'd do me happy. I believed I could be myself without worrying simply about him cheating on me, abandoning me, or suffocating me to death.
Within several months I attracted the man I married. Fifteen years later, we are still in love and having fun. Yesterday, May 2, we celebrated our Thirteenth wedding anniversary.
You can attract and marry the man of your dreams, too:
1) Determine what you don't want
2) Determine what you do want
3) Manifest it by focusing on it and by writing an affirmation simply about it
5) Say it out loud piece you're in the shower or several another private place (no need to blurt out it out in the institution break room)
4) Support it up for at least 30 days. Be consistent
5) Notice the changes inside
yourself
6) Notice the changes in the men you attract.
It worked for me, and it wish activity for you. Go for it.
Just simply about the author:
Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of "How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams." Visit her website at http://www.marrysmart.comCheck out her web log at http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com
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