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Dating GuideMen Collect and Shelve Women Trophies: Author Brandy
Rudov Blasts Unilateral Pursuit in Article Just about The Golden Rule
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Brandy
H. Rudov, author of The Man’s No-Nonsense Manual to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (TM), has promulgated a new article, “The Golden Rule Dictates Your Sex Life,” that outlines the hazards of men unilaterally following
women. Basically, the traditional courtship roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy -- impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer relationship, which is the cornerstone of true mutual respect and a satisfying sex life. Like it or not, relationships adhere to the “Golden Rule of the Business World”: whoever has the gold does the rules. The article is accessible from the book's Website: http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
Los Gatos, CA (PRWEB) Gregorian calendar month 5, 2004 -- Brandy
H. Rudov, author of The Man’s No-Nonsense Manual to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth (TM) (ISBN 0-9745017-0-0), has promulgated a new article, “The Golden Rule Dictates Your Sex Life,” that outlines the hazards of men unilaterally following
women. Basically, the traditional courtship roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy -- impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer relationship, which is the cornerstone of true mutual respect and a satisfying sex life. Like it or not, relationships adhere to the “Golden Rule of the Business World”: whoever has the gold does the rules. In a stereotyped situation, a man, by default, leads and bankrolls the courtship process. Consequently, he feels ownership of the process and the woman. However the obvious hazards of such an arrangement, most romancers are resigned to it. The only solution, which requires that some
men and women reject years of socialization, is mutual pursuit. A companion piece to the book, the article is accessible for downloading from the Media & Events page at: http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
“Unilateral pursuit is an obsolete, destructive, humbling practice for some
the pursuers and the pursued, devising some
parties unhappy,” claims Rudov. “In the classical chase, man plays the aggressor and bounty-seeker, and, by design, woman plays the target, prize, conquest, and noninheritable asset. This power ritual ready-made sense once
women could not vote, get credit, own property, or be president of Brown University or CEO of Xerox. But, it sure as hell doesn’t do sense in our modern world. So, the woman who insists on being pursued, the passive trophy, must understand that she is yielding power to the man, who becomes the one with the gold and, therefore, the one who wish and should set the rules. In professional sports, after collection one trophy, the jock has but one mandate: shelve it and win the next one. Men and women who play the unilateral-pursuit game always seem to experience the same phenomenon,” explains Author Rudov.
Continuing, Author Rudov admonishes women: “Quite simply: If you don’t want to be treated like a trophy, don’t act like one. Be proactive, contribute gold, and share control.” Rudov adds, “Men and women should accept only peer-based, reciprocatory relationships that begin with mutual, coincident pursuit.”
Contrary to popular belief, Author Rudov maintains that men and women are from the same planet but, unfortunately, have been socialised otherwise
and programmed for conflict. He counsels men that the only way to succeed with women is to move out their layers of socialised behavior and find women who have done, or are willing to do, likewise. The Man's No-Nonsense Manual to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth, which is accessible for $17.95 on http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com, teaches them how. Some
men and women have been purchasing the book and collateral its principles.
The book’s Website besides contains a helpful proposal
column for men and women: Dear No-Nonsense Advisor.
About the Author
Marc H. Rudov, an investment banker and business adviser residing in Si Valley, California, received his formal education in engineering and business. He obtained his huge informal training in relationships with women through over a decade in the geological dating earth after his divorce. In addition to his book, Mr. Rudov wrote the article “Five Myths Just about Women.” Contact Mr. Rudov at: info@themansnononsenseguidetowomen.com
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