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Dating GuideIs 'Sex and the City' Setting You Up for Loneliness?
by:
Terry Hernon MacDonald
A couple of weeks ago, I watched a Sex and the City episode, in which Charlotte, in her never-ending quest to find true love, attends a seminar to teach her how to do simply that.
She drags Carrie along, who scoffs at the whole thing. She thinks some
the women who got sucked into attending and the seminar leader are sad and ridiculous.
To attract the right men, the crowd is counseled to use affirmations, which Carrie finds preposterous. These suckers really think they're going to meet guys by reciting a string of useless words!
During the presentation, Charlotte raises her hand to ask the leader a question. She says thing
like, "I've been mistreatment my affirmations, but I still haven't found the right one."
Slightly annoyed, the leader says, you have to get out there, you have to love yourself, and so on.
Carrie grabs the mic from Charlotte and insists, "She is out there."
The leader says something, but Carrie drowns her out, "She is out there."
As far as Carrie's concerned, the seminar is a scam. There are probably no decent men left on the planet. The nice ones are married, and the rest have issues.
Now, I enjoy look Sex and the City. It's fun. It's light. It takes my mind off much serious things.
But it is not real life!
Carrie may discount the power of affirmations, but I didn't. If you aim to attract a extraordinary man, you shouldn't, either.
They work.
Even better, they're free.
Indeed, they are one of the most important methods I used to attract the right man for me (who I've been blithely wedded to for all but 13 years).
After years of chemical analysis losers, schmoozers, and No-Show Joes, I attracted a loyal, loving, reliable, successful, fun man by mistreatment affirmations.
If you want to attract a man who is worthy of you, who wish add to your happiness, then decide what qualities you want in a man and write an affirmation in the present tense:
I am blithely wedded to (or in a relationship with) a ____, ____, _____, ______ man.
Write it ten times a day. Recite it in the shower. Repeat it to yourself as you're falling asleep at night.
Give it time. You could start attracting better men inside
weeks. If you've been hurt or have trouble trusting men, it wish take much time.
But support it up. Support it to yourself. You'll find out that it's worth it.
By all means, support look Sex and the City. Simply remember that it's fiction. Few people, men or women, really behave like its characters in Manhattan or anyplace
else.
Simply about the author:
Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams. Visit her website at http://www.marrysmart.com
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