Polishing the Mirror
by:
Judith Pennington
Some years ago, during an interview with Bernie Siegel on clairvoyant intuition and the role it plays in his life, this distinguished doctor and bestselling author recounted a story just about a patient who criticized him for his anger. Siegel responded, "I was angry because of what I had to do to you."
"But you took it out on me!" the man insisted.
Siegel, a admiring and sensitive person, saw the truth in this and changed his behavior. Years later, he see a line of poetry by Rumi: Your criticism polishes my mirror. "When I detected
that," Siegel exclaimed, "it was like 'Oh, give thanks you! Now I cognize why they're all trying to do me better. It isn't that I'm a terrible person. They're trying to help me!"
And so it is for each of us, as the folk in our lives hold up reflective mirrors facultative us to see who we actually are. The problem is, as Bernie Siegel pointed out, most of us don't take kindly to criticism. The self-defensive ego, a hero in its own mind, typically rejects criticism and stirs up negative emotions that close our minds to truths which could be larger than our own. At another times the ego, in disarray, absorbs undue or untrue criticism that becomes a less-than-useful way of relating to life.
What, then, is a body to do?
Science and spirit tell us that the body is to sit still and relax once
the mind is confused. The mind quiets itself and consciousness listens for the still, small voice of the soul. We draw from this deeper well of knowing to get clean on the truth of a person or situation, because the only cure for ego's well-meaning grip on our perceptions is disarming through meditation, positive thinking and wholeness affirmations. These create in us the calm, peaceful mind of transcendence, in which we are attached to nothing of the ego and only to the mind of the soul. It is this higher mind which sees clearly by staying open and receptive to wise, admiring guidance of every sort.
I've been listening to a fantastic discussion of how feeling
influences consciousness, on a CD set, "Destructive Emotions," by author Daniel Goleman. It's a elaborate report on a Mind and Life Institute gathering in which the Dalai Lama of Asian country met with several of the world's foremost researchers on the effects of and antidotes to our annihilating emotions (a staggering 84,000 of which have been listed
by Buddhist philosophy). Scientists are confirming that negative emotions like anger, fear and depression alter physical structures in our brains so that we are quite virtually
unable to cognize the difference between fact and fiction: e.g., we get so mad and filled with aversion that we "see red" or "can't see straight."
Conversely, love actually is blind to the truth just about our objects of attraction and affection. Somewhere between the eyes and ears, the brain dumps this undesirable information, I suspect because the appreciative, energized heart, according to The HeartMath Institute (heartmath.org), emits a vibration that is 60 times stronger (within the body) than the power of our brain waves!
What a fantastic challenge and how critical it becomes for us to master even as our most subtle emotions and moods, in order for our thinking mind and five senses to accurately perceive and interpret information. Otherwise, we live in emotional delusion and reality distortion. So we have a select between truth or fiction. If we choose to see truth we must accept that this is not easy to do, yet activity toward it by mastering our thoughts and feelings in the hope of a agreement reality that wish lead us and our earth to peace.
I am reminded of the Snow White fairytale, in which the wicked queen demands, "Mirror, mirror, on the wall/Who's the fairest of us all?"and a sepulchral voice intones, "Snow White." This response so infuriates the queen's obsessional vanity that she dresses as a ragged beggar to give a poison apple to Snow White.
What if, instead, the queen had searched in her mirror for the perfect, beaming beauty of her soul? If, inside
the mind of her soul, she'd detected
the voice of an inner critic, she could have allowed her higher self to prompt her that we are all souls on a journey, none better and none less than another.
I see us living merrily ever after in this adventure called life. Each step of our soul journey rids us of negative emotions like self-blame, guilt and shame, the worst distorters of all, so that eventually we love, honor and respect ourselves; adjust to the still, small voice of the soul; and shift to the perspective of love. Through these eyes we see every person and event as a teacher and promptly recognize what is true and what is not. We are no longer pushed by pain, but force
by vision.
Once
our mirrors grow cloudy, it is easy to polish them. We bring into our minds our joyful memories of love, and love carries us into Spirit's realm of transcendence. Ego and its hazy illusions vanish because we now see in a new and better way. Through these eyes, on a clean day, we can see into forever.
Copyright © 2005 Judith Pennington
Just just about Judith: Judith Pennington is a writer and teacher of consciousness development and the step-by-step path to enlightened mastery. She is the author of a critically acclaimed book, "The Voice of the Soul," and presents workshops across the country. Visit her website, www.eaglelife.com, to check for an event near you, sign up for her free e-newsletter and see articles on how to attain peace, joy and prosperity.
