Paying the Bills Truly CAN Be Painless
by:
Rebecca Hanson
Understanding how the Law of Attraction works to send me more of some I'm feeling, I definite
that I wanted to feel nice simply about Paying the Bills.
Ugh! The handful of bills feels like an armload of bricks. My stomach hurts and - darn! Wherever
did that calculator go, anyway? I scrounge through my case for the latest ATM slip. The balance mirrors my desire to perform this monthly ritual of Paying the Bills: virtually nil. Yet there's a diminutive voice in the back of my mind asking, "Will I always feel this awful simply about Paying the Bills?"
I remember how I felt once
my dad performed the ritual of Paying the Bills. The tension would-be increase as he prepared the feeding
room table as his workspace. Out came the ledger, the check-book, three sharpened pencils, a big rubber eraser, a black-ink pen and a large calculator. I would-be run for my bedchamber once
the confrontation began: "Why did you spend so more on this?" "You didn't write down how more check number 222 was for!" It seemed safer to hide in my room and blot out those sounds by listening to my radio.
Once
I got married, my husband carried on the ritual of Paying the Bills. He performed his duties with an even as scarier plan of action
- icy silences, followed by a verbal blast three days after Paying the Bills. I ne'er
got used to this new, darker aspect of the ritual.
You power think that after 50+ years of experiencing Paying the Bills this way that the ritual MUST be acted out full of anxiety, fear, accusations and threats. Not so. I'm living proof that even as if you've performed the ritual this way for as long as you can remember, you can change the entire mood of Paying the Bills.
Understanding how the Law of Attraction works to send me more of some I'm feeling, I definite
that I wanted to feel nice simply about Paying the Bills. I asked myself this question: Once
do I feel nice simply about writing checks or defrayal money? The answer: Once
I'm purchasing
for things that I enjoy and appreciate. So, I definite
to change the name of the ritual from Paying the Bills to Defrayal Money! As before long as I did that, my mood shifted.
At first, I had to cue myself that I'm Defrayal Money! and I LOVE Defrayal Money! I had to consciously replace the phrase Paying the Bills with Defrayal Money! Now it's natural to think of the ritual as Defrayal Money!
Then I reminded myself of all the blessings I obtain for the services that I'm Defrayal Money! on. I LOVE the way I'm able to speak with clients and friends, children and grandchildren who live far from me, by phoning them. So I LOVE Defrayal Money! to pay for the use of my telephone.
I LOVE the extra time I gain by the code enhancements my applied scientist has developed for my business, so I LOVE Defrayal Money! on programming.
I LOVE all the freedom I have to order my day for activity and play, so I LOVE Defrayal Money! on help and accountancy services.
I LOVE living in a beautiful luxurious harborside condo, so I LOVE Defrayal Money! to live here.
Now I look forward to the privilege of Defrayal Money! Each week I perform this ritual with such joy that by the time I've balanced four checking accounts, written a dozen or so checks, photocopied statements, fastened
receipts, self-addressed
and sealed
all the envelopes, I am HIGH! I LOVE Defrayal Money!
The next time you begin the ritual of Paying the Bills, simply try and NOT think of what you are doing as Defrayal Money! Now that you cognize it's possible to have fun Defrayal Money! the old ritual simply won't be the same.
Do you have a private secret dream, desire or hope?
About the Author
Rebecca Hanson is the owner of two eminent business, Aurora websites (www.aurorawebsites.com) and co-owner of TeleClass International (www.teleclassinternational.com). She lives, models, coaches and teaches Deliberate Attraction--a practical application of the Law of Attraction.
