Are You Production
These Body Language Mistakes With Your Hands?
by:
John Alexander
Unfortunately, what you do with your hands can be one of the fastest
non-verbal route to destroy the attraction that a woman feels for you, because the wrong hand movements can communicate that you are a low-status, beta male.
To do matters worse, your hands can be particularly tough to manage because, let's face it, once
you feel nervous, the hardest thing in the earth is problem solving out what to do with your hands!
For success with your qualitative analysis
and seduction of women, do sure you don't do the following body language mistakes with your hands.
MISTAKE ONE. Displaying your anxiety with your hands.
You do this once
you:
1) Shred napkins.
2) Do your hands into fists.
3) Sit on your hands.
4) Hold thing
and play with it.
5) Twiddle your fingers or thumbs.
6) Hold your hands artificially still.
7) Sit on your hands to avoid having the woman see them tremble.
Although you strength
be feeling nervous, the last thing you want to do is to let the woman find you feel that way.
Instead you want to convey that you're calm and in control. Nothing attracts a woman much than a man who's ordered
back and confident.
MISTAKE TWO. Golf stroke your fingers into your mouth.
When you bite your nails or otherwise chew on your fingers, you are, according to psychologists, doing the same thing that infants are doing once
they suck their mother's breast.
For a baby, breast feeding provides comfort. Once
we became toddlers, our thumbs replaced our mom's nipple.
And then as adults, biting our fingernail
makes the same thing. Ever detected
that once
you're out in public, you primarily bite your nails once
you're under pressure?
THE SOLUTION. Simply hold your hands relaxed on the table.
Rest your forearms on the table, keeping your arms open and holding them drop forward.
Keep your hands and arms open and relaxed. Most of the time this means having them just about 18 inches or half a meter apart, your palms facing each other, with fingers arching slightly upward.
As your palms face each other, they should likewise face the woman. Open palms convey honesty and being altogether comfortable with yourself. Having the back of your hands facing her can often convey that you're concealing
something.
Demonstrating your confidence can be as easy as that! Finish twiddling your thumbs and watch the women flock to you.
Simply just about THE AUTHOR
John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male, a qualitative analysis
and seduction success manual for men which wish improve your body language and confidence.
