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Attraction Information10 Showing emotion
Intelligent Questions to Ask Before You Marry
by:
Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach
"10 Showing emotion
Intelligent Questions to Ask Before Your Marry Someone."
by Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach
1. Is it simply sexual attraction?
Sexual attraction comes from the reptilian brain and is automatic and powerful because it relates to our
survival. It's not always a basis for living with being happily. Don't let it "hijack" you. Find out what else is there.
2. Do they like to touch and be touched?
This is important to your mental and physical health.
3. Do they look at your with feeling and kindness?
Most communication is nonverbal.
4. Have you used your thinking brain?
EQ means mistreatment all 3 brains. Are you compatible in your daily habits? You'll be keeping home together. Do you have the same values and priorities?
5. Makes he or she have emotional self-awareness? How are they at empathy?
One of the most prognosticative traits for compatibility is if you can sense the other's sadness.
6. How optimistic is this person ?
Optimism is the help of all the EQ competencies. In addition, optimists live longer, enjoy better health, and accomplish more.
7. Are they intentional?
Intentionality, an EQ competency, is language what you mean and meaning what you say. As well being responsible
for the motives behind your actions. If you have commitment to the relationship, i.e., nobody's going to go away, you'll activity through problems differently.
8. How resilient are they?
How do they manage adverse events and setbacks? Have they been able to grow through adversity, not simply go through it?
9. How do you and your partner manage anger?
Successful couples soothe one another instead of provocative and escalating.
10. How balanced is their life?
Resilient folk combine learning, activity and leisure throughout their lifetime.
Just about THE AUTHOR
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