How To Get Your Ex Back Now Ebook

How To Get Your Ex Back Now

Now You Can Stop Your Break Up or Divorce and Get Your Ex Back
Even if you're the only one trying

You Can Get Your Love Back Often Within Hours
Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless

Jason screwed up. He cheated on Jen, got caught and kicked out. He felt like an idiot and wanted desperately to get back together. He begged and pleaded with her to give him another chance. "It meant nothing, it's you I really love!" But Jennifer said what most women in this situation feel: "No Way, I can never trust you again." Both of them were hurt and feeling miserable.

Jason had lost his love over a "meaningless" fling. He was desperate for relationship advice. Jen felt betrayed and could see no way to get back to the feelings of love for her man. Was there any marriage help for her?

Relationship breakups happen all the time for all kinds of reasons. Cheating is one of the biggest causes, but it can be anything. Constant fighting and arguing. One mate just "isn't that into" the other one anymore. Or one of you is too controlling and the other feels smothered. Whatever. Relationship problems lead to breakups.

But what if you can get your ex back, even for the worst of transgressions? Using the information you're about to discover, Jason made a specific kind of call to his soon-to-be ex wife

that took less than ten minutes.

In that one phone call something remarkable happened for Jen. She actually began to feel like maybe she could trust him again. So they got back together that same night. Yes, they still have some things to work on, but they got back together because Jason learned something about helping his ex move back towards trust.

What if you could get your ex back? And in the process build a stronger love relationship than you had before? It happens a lot, and it can happen for you. What if you could move beyond any and all past mistakes made between you and get over a break up in hours?

My name is John Laney and I teach courses on Relationship and Emotional Intelligence. I've written a book called How To Get Your Love Back Now. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method Jason used is just one of the powerful approaches you can learn to win back your ex.

What if your relationship ended over another huge problem -
your ex just isn't that into you?

The passion died away. Like when Mike told Debra "Things just aren't the same anymore... you're not The One for me..." and walked out of her life. Debra felt crushed. Another guy she really liked had dumped her. Ouch! But what could she do when he just wasn't that into her?

Can you get ex back when
they're just not that into you?

This kind of common relationship problem requires a whole different approach than Jason needed with Jen. And its not hard to learn at all. Debra made a different kind of call to Mike. Again,

It took less than ten minutes.

She followed it up with a second call the next day and they were back together and got over their breakup within two days. She and Mike are now both back in love and having more fun than ever before. You can learn exactly what she said in the call to win back his heart. You see, relationships deal in Emotional Logic. Learn it, and you can turn your ex back into your love.

Jason used some compelling Emotional Intelligence to get back with Jen. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method that he used won't work for everyone. Yet it's perfect for some situations. It is powerful and it will help you to move beyond mistakes with your ex much more quickly.

Debra used a very different kind of Emotional Logic to get back with Mike. Even after Mike said the dreaded words "Maybe we can still be friends." And, she had a lot of fun doing it.

I am going to tell you in this letter one of the first basic pieces to winning back the love of your ex. But first, here is a short video I put together on some relationship intelligence you can put to use today in getting your ex back.

It's Not Hopeless!

Look. If you are in the midst of a break up or divorce, I know it's a hard time. A break up is an emotional hurricane of very difficult feelings to deal with. Heartache. Sadness. Loneliness. Desperation. In Jason's case guilt and shame and in Debra's case sadness and grief. Break up's trigger some of the worst feelings in our lives.

You can cry at the drop of a hat. Or see two lovers holding hands and suddenly feel the weight of a bowling ball in your gut for what you've lost. Hear a love song on the radio and feel crushing heartache.

But what if you could win back your ex? What if you could not only begin to repair the damage but learn some simple methods to have more love than ever before? What if you could stop a divorce dead in its tracks with a 7 minute conversation? What if you could turn your ex wife or ex husband into your lover again within hours?

But how?? Is there some secret recipe to making your ex want your back? Is there some code proven by others that you could rush your love back into your arms?

The Code can be called EQ.

EQ stands for Emotional Intelligence. Jason had a tough problem to overcome, right? Cheating is one of the biggest relationship killers in the world. He desperately wanted another chance, but Jen kept saying she could never trust him again. What can you do if that's the case? Man or woman - whether you wronged your mate or they wronged you - learning some EQ will help you get your love back and stop your break up or divorce.

You need Emotional Intelligence if you are

• Calling your ex ten times a day and leaving voice mails
• Obsessing over what happened
• Having a hard time thinking about anything else
• Feeling drained of energy
• Feeling hopeless, like nobody will ever love you again
• Thinking about stalking and spying on them
• Rehashing your last conversations endlessly

And, if you do talk to your ex, what if it gets no better, or even worse? Does your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend seem more distant or angry or resolved to stay clear of you? That's okay, because

We can make a lot of mistakes during a break up, like

• Tell our ex it's their fault
• argue even louder and harder.
• try to avoid blame.
• beg and plead
• come across as totally desperate and needy.
• Try the "silent treatment"
• or get pushy and obnoxious.

Some friendly advice? Don't do those things or stop doing them. They're bad Emotional Logic, and will drive your ex even further away!

Make Your Ex Want You Back With the 7 Minute Reconnect Method

Like I said, I teach Emotional and Relationship Intelligence courses. And one of the first things that you learn coaching couples is this: all relationships have breakdowns. You know what a breakdown is - Fights, arguments, upsets, distancing. It's gonna happen in all relationships.

Well, since millions of couples every day have breakdowns in their relationship, many studies have been done to see what works and what doesn't work when couples have problems. After all, there are lots of opportunities to observe this, right?

But both attacking and
withdrawing are mistakes!

They keep the upset from being resolved! And, attacking and withdrawing both damage the quality of the relationship. But if you're like most people, you're stuck! You probably know that attacking/forcing your ex won't get them back. Or you know that the "silent treatment" and being cold and distant isn't working either.

What else can you do?

Well, just as studies have figured out what doesn't work, there are also several things people do to reconnect that do work. Saying "I'm sorry" til you're blue in the face doesn't work, but saying "I'm sorry" using the right Emotional Logic can work within minutes.

Three other important things have to happen first in an apology for it to really work the way you want it to. And almost nobody gets them right. Learning what to say before I'm sorry can allow you to be back with your ex often within minutes or hours from now.

I've been studying and teaching about breakdowns in relationships for years now. I've coached lots of people on how to reconnect and get back together. And one of the most interesting things I've learned is this: a few powerful conversations that take less than ten minutes can begin to get most couples past big problems.

Whether its cheating or being wronged or loss of passion and boredom. Often times, just ten minutes of the right kind of Emotional Logic can begin to win back your love. No begging or pleading. No yelling or forcing. No more being cold and distant. The Emotional Intelligence involved in getting your love back can be learned in minutes from the book

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