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E-book Title: Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage
Author: Andrew D. Atwood
Book Description: Is your relationship stuck on the
side of the road because you are anxious
about approaching each other sexually?
Yes, if you are stuck... I've got something that can rescue you from your dilemma!
Here is a partial list of the content included in Hopeful Solutions for Your Sexless Marriage. You will undoubtedly recognize yourself in one or more of these Chapters.
Who else is out there traveling through "the land of sexless marriage problems?" Armed with the right facts you might be able to feel more "normal."
Anxious? Of course you are! This is an adventure! But too much of the wrong anxiety will kill your libido. Maybe you are already suffering form the wrong anxiety?
Anxiety is feedback on how well you are driving with your partner. When your anxiety is low, you are just fine...cruising along... just fine. If your anxiety is high, you are in trouble!
Let's look at your driving record - personal history, sexual history, and relationship history. All three are important. And any of these three from your history can be messing up your sexual desire in the present.
Where you now and where are are you going on this journey? Yes, let's take a look at your present relationship and what is getting in the way today.
Here's a Pocket Map that will show you where you might be off track. Oh, oh... so many people have found this incredible little tool to be enormously useful. Four levels for building a relationship. Screw up this gradual step-by-step process and you invite trouble. Do it right, and bliss is your destination.
Who are you traveling with? Who is your partner? The works of Myers and Briggs can help you to know. Use this time-tested and deeply researched tool to understand your own fundamental temperament, and your partner's. Take some of the mystery out of who you each are.
You and your partner are different. You enjoy foreplay differently. Your engine gets turned on differently. You have different attitudes toward oral sex. Lots of differences. Time to stop and take a look at some of these differences and how they might be getting in the way.
Substance abuse, pornography, masturbation, sex addictions, anger... all might be making it difficult to travel together. Yes, when this stuff is present it can be very difficult to get turned-on.
How about the travel games you play, and your different styles of "driving?" Do you like to play games? Does your partner? Some are a turn-on, and some are a turn-off.
Are you test-driving, leasing, or owning? Each is a different level of commitment. Some of us don't want to make love with a partner that has a partial commitment.
How well tuned-up are each of you? If you have mechanical problems you'll have a break down. And oh my, can there be a lot of mechanical problems! The really bugger is that a lot of mechanical problems aren't obvious.
Have enough gas, enough energy for the trip? Exhausted? Empty? Too pooped to pop? This is the single BIGGEST complaint from couples who come into my office. "We are just too tired to get it on."
Oops, a real breakdown. Where do you go for roadside service? To your M.D.? Some kind of counselor? Here are some practical tips about who is good for what problem.
On a life-long trip, how do you stay psyched up and not bored? I've been married 36 years myself, and in almost all ways, I still feel like I'm 21 years old! But, I have been bored along the way. There are smart ways to address the boredom, and there are really dumb ways.
What are those gauges on the dashboard? Your arousal threshold, orgasmic threshold, and your subjective emotional responses can help you to stay on the road. Take a look at these diagrams and figure out how well you are doing. If something is amiss, you better pull over and address it... now!
Some of the common problems encountered on any road trip, such as not being able to turn over the engine, questions of gender identity, female "mechanical" problems, his struggle to keep it up, popping the clutch with premature ejaculation, etc.
How to spend your time while traveling together - talking, growing, being silent, and giving road-head! Yup, this can really be a close and intimate, as well as an erotic trip!
What to do when traveling together sucks (or doesn't) and you aren't happy any longer. Should you pull over and call the trip off? What?
Picking up hitch hikers - 7 kinds of affairs of the heart and genitals. Two's company; three's a crowd.
Falling asleep at the wheel - benign and hostile neglect. My own father told me that this was the single biggest contributor to marriage problems. He was right.
Necessary pit stops to relieve your self. Yes, sometimes it is absolutely necessary to pull over at a rest stop.
Getting lost on the journey, and finding your way back home. Guys don't like to use maps, of course. But, you both can get lost at times. Here is a map of the human journey that we are all on, and what you can do to get back on track.
Running out of gas for the journey. Are you too pooped to put out? Back to this subject again! It is so critical. Most of life is sucking us dry!
Unexpected problems that really stop you - mental, emotional, physical, relational and cultural breakdowns. Don't pretend this stuff isn't happening if it really is. Take and inventory, and address it now so that eroticism and intimacy are rekindled.
Electrical problems - when the spark is gone. Of course, the spark always goes out after a few years. Here is some advice on how to address this ever so common challenge.
The point system - getting busted by the cops for bad behavior. I'm talking about really bad behavior. When you have done something horribly wrong, or your partner has... it can be a challenge to get past it.
Tips for driving through bad weather - some of them are obvious, and some of them might seem kinky. Enough said.
What to do when you get car sick, or just plain sick physically. How do you make love with someone who is ill and throwing up?
Crashes - like when your erection fails you, or romantic interludes fail, or when you work real hard and can't come. Broken dreams should be temporary setbacks, not permanent states of despair.
Dead ends - abuse, either physical or emotional. This is the time to drop the peddle to the metal, and get going... and get out!
The role of a regular 3,000-mile maintenance check-up. "You can pay me now, or you can pay me later."
Cruising along and visiting scenic overlooks - everything is beautiful! Yes, there are moments of great joy and eternal bliss... moments that will be remembered forever.
Marking and celebrating your progress. You've made it! You have traveled THROUGH the Land of Sexless Marriage Problems. Celebrate! And share your story with others who need to go on a road trip.More... | 
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